6 mau ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo no ka pehea e hoʻokele ai i ka huhū i kāu pili

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• Nā Heluhelu Huhū Nui
• Mālama i ka huhū: ʻ Tipslelo Aʻoaʻo, Nā ʻenehana, a me nā meahana

Kūleʻa ka huhū i nā pilina, ka pilina aloha, akā me nā aloha a me nā pilina ʻohana. ʻOiai ka laha, ʻaʻole maopopo mau iā mākou ke ʻano maoli o kēia ʻano mana ikaika a i ʻole pehea ka hopena i kā mākou poʻe aloha. Ma ka hoʻomaopopo ʻana pehea e hōʻike ʻia ai ka huhū i nā pilina e hiki ke kōkua i ka ʻike i ka pehea e mālama pono ai i kou huhū ponoʻī, a kū i kahi hoa huhū, hoaaloha, a lālā ʻohana paha.

Hele mai ka huhū i nā ʻano like ʻole. ʻAʻole nā ​​ʻano a pau o kēia naʻau i pahu hopu. ʻO kahi laʻana, hoʻonāukiuki me kāu kamepiula lawe lima a me ka huhū lele wale i pili me ke kaumaha ʻaʻohe mea kau. ʻOiai hiki i ka huhū targetless ke kumu o ka pilikia i ka pili pili, maʻalahi maʻalahi nā hakakā e kū mai ana mai kēia ʻano huhū.

ʻAʻole like me ka huhū targetless, hiki i ka huhū huhū ke hoʻonāukiuki i nā pilikia o ka pilina, no ka mea, pili ia i ka kuleana a me ka ʻāhewa. Ma kona ʻano hewa hou aʻe, ʻike ʻia ka huhū ʻino he "huhū" a i ʻole "huhū." ʻO ke ʻano huhū huhū e hala koke i ke ʻano o ka huhū a i ʻole ka huhū huhū.

Pehea ka hopena o ka huhū i kahi pilina pili i ka pinepine a me ka nui o ka huhū huhū. ʻO ka huhū pinepine pinepine pinepine kahi ʻano waha, manaʻo, a i ʻole hoʻomāinoino kino. Hoʻopili lākou i ka walaʻau ʻana, ka hea ʻana i ka inoa, ka hoʻowahāwahā ʻana, ka hoʻoweliweli ʻana, ke kīkē ʻana i ka paia, ka pā ʻana i ka puka, ke kīloi ʻana i kahi mea, a me ke kuʻi ʻana, ma waena o nā ʻano ʻē aʻe.

Akā ʻaʻole pōkole ka huhū āpau. Lōʻihi ka huhū i kekahi manawa no ka mea ʻaʻole i alo ʻia a hoʻonā ʻia kekahi mau pilikia pili. Ke mau ka huhū, lilo i huhū a huhū paha.

ʻOi aku ka lōʻihi o ka inaina a me ka huhū ma mua o kahi huhū pōkole. Hiki iā lākou ke hoʻolōʻihi no kekahi mau pule a mau mahina paha i ka hopena, malia paha he mau makahiki paha-e hūnā ʻia ma lalo o ka pale flimsy o ka ʻike, akā ke nānā pinepine nei me ʻoe.

I ka huhū a me ka huhū ʻelua, hana mākou i kahi kūpono ʻole i ʻike ʻia. I ka huhū, lawe mākou i ka pahuhopu o kā mākou inaina i hana i kahi pono pilikino pilikino. Kū pinepine ka inaina i nā pilina ke manaʻo mākou ua hana hewa kekahi kanaka ʻē aʻe iā mākou-kahi mea ʻaʻole nānā wale. ʻO kahi laʻana, inā ʻaʻole i kono i kāu hoaaloha pili iā ʻoe i kā lākou male ʻana, ʻoiai ke kono ʻaneʻane ʻana i nā mea a pau o ko lākou launa, hiki i ka huhū lōʻihi i kāu hoa.

ʻO ka huhū, a i ʻole i kapa ʻia i kekahi manawa he "huhū," ʻo ia ka analogue vicarious o ka huhū. Ke huhū ʻoe, he aha kāu e hopohopo nei he hana pono ʻole i hana ʻia i kekahi mea ʻē aʻe - hana hewa paha i ka nohona. ʻOiai hiki ke huhū no ka pono o nā kumu hanohano, hiki i kēia ʻano huhū ke hoʻopilikia i kā mākou pilina, ke hōʻike ʻole ʻia a mālama pololei ʻia paha.

ʻO kahi laʻana, huhū paha ʻoe i ke aʻo ʻana i kou makuahine — he alakaʻi ʻo R&D i loko o kahi ʻoihana nui — ua ʻae wale i kahi 50 pakeneka, ʻoiai e ʻike ana i ka ʻoihana āna e hana nei no 200 mau limahana e hele aku nei. ʻO ka huhū āu e ʻike ai i kēia hanana hiki ke maʻalahi iā ʻoe e nānā i kou makuahine ma ke ʻano he kanaka maikaʻi ʻole, e hoʻololi paha i kou inaina i ka inaina a hoʻowahāwahā paha i ka laina. ʻO ka inaina hohonu i kou makuahine ka makamua o ka hopena o kāu pili makua a hiki i kēia wā.

Hiki i ka huhū a me ka huhū hohonu ke hoʻoulu i ka hoʻomāinoino i ka naʻau, ʻoi aku ka nui o nā hana passive-agresive, e like me ka hoʻomaʻamaʻa hāmau, e ʻōlelo ana i nā code, e hoʻāʻo nei e loaʻa ke aloha, hoʻopoina mau, a hana ʻino paha, e inoa i kekahi.

Pehea mākou e hoʻokele ai a hoʻonā i nā pilikia huhū i nā pilina? Eia kekahi mau ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo.

Nā Heluhelu Huhū Nui

Mālama i ka huhū: ʻ Tipslelo Aʻoaʻo, Nā ʻenehana, a me nā meahana