Nā kāne makua o nā mākua Narcissistic - Ka Pālua Whammy
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ʻOiai kaʻu kākau ʻana i loko E lawa maikaʻi paha wau? Ke hoʻōla nei i nā kaikamahine a nā makuahine Narcissistic, pili pili i ka noiʻi ʻana e pili ana i nā wahine, ua loaʻa iaʻu nā leka uila he nui mai nā kāne e nīnau ana e pili ana i nā hopena o nā kāne i hānai ʻia e nā mākua narcissistic. Ke heluhelu nei kaʻu mau kāne kāne i kaʻu puke e kū nei, akā ke noi nei no ka ʻike hou aku. Ke hana nei wau i ka noiʻi i kēia wahi a hiki iā ʻoe ke kōkua. E kau inoa e ninaninau ʻia ma lalo pilikino "Kanaka" ma kaʻu pūnaewele puke ma www.nevergoodenough.com.
Ma ka Radio Enough Rocks Maikaʻi, ko mākou hōʻike lekiō kūikawā no nā keiki makua o nā mākua narcissistic, ua nīnauele wau i ka mea hoʻoponopono ʻohana ʻO Terry Real ma Nowemapa 13, 2010. ʻO ia ka mea kākau o ʻAʻole wau makemake e kamaʻilio e pili ana iā ia: Ke kāpae ʻana i ka hoʻoilina huna o ke kaumaha kāne . Ua kamaʻilio ʻo Terry i ke kaumaha huna i nā kāne a pehea e mālama ai iā lākou mai ka pili ʻana i ko lākou mau manaʻo. Hana pū ke kaumaha i ka pale aku i nā kāne mai kā lākou wā kamaliʻi trauma a i ʻole nā manaʻo hohonu hohonu ʻē aʻe. I ka wā ninaninau, ʻaʻole hiki iaʻu ke noʻonoʻo akā pehea no nā keiki kāne a nā mākua narcissistic, he whammy pālua ia. ʻO ka mea mua, ʻo ka leka ... "Mai kamaʻilio e pili ana i kou mau manaʻo" mai ka pehea a mākou e launa kanaka ai i kēia moʻomeheu. A laila ʻo ka lua ka ʻāpana maʻalahi akā ʻoi aku ka luku mai ka ʻohana narcissistic e paipai ana i nā kāne e hōʻole i kā lākou ʻano ponoʻī. ʻOiai mākou he mau wahine, ipo wahine, mau kaikuahine, a me nā kaikamahine e makemake i kā mākou mau kāne e makaʻala a ʻōlelo e pili ana i ko lākou ao i loko, ua wehewehe ʻia ka paʻakikī o kēia ma ka ninaninau Terry Real i kahi ʻano ʻokoʻa a hohonu hoʻi. Ua ʻōlelo maikaʻi ʻo Terry, "ʻAʻole makemake nā kāne i nā pōpō a ko lākou makuakāne, makemake lākou i nā puʻuwai o ko lākou makuakāne." A kamaʻilio ʻo ia e pili ana i ke koʻikoʻi o ka hānai ʻana i nā kāne puʻuwai a puʻuwai.
Ua kūkākūkā pū ʻo Real i kāna hoʻopaʻapaʻa hoihoi me ka moʻolelo i manaʻo nui ʻia e hoʻokaʻawale nā keikikāne mai kā lākou mau makuahine hānai i ka wā ʻōpio i mea e lilo ʻole ai i mau kanikau. He kumuhana maikaʻi kēia na Myth Busters! Kuhi hewa maoli i kēia kaʻao a hōʻike pū i kona manaʻoʻiʻo he hōʻihi ʻole ka leka i nā wahine. E like me kā mākou e ʻike nei, nui nā wahine hoʻokahi a me nā wahine wahine wahine e hānai nei i nā keiki kāne i kēia mau lā a ke hana nei i kahi hana maikaʻi. Hoʻomaopopo pū ʻo Terry Real iā mākou i ka wā i hoʻomaka ai ka neʻe ʻana o ka wahine, aia ka hopohopo a laila inā e hōʻeuʻeu ʻia kā mākou mau kaikamahine ʻōpio e akamai a mākaukau a me ka hoʻomeamea a me ka hānai ʻana, aia mākou i ka makaʻu i ka hoʻolilo ʻana i nā wahine i kāne. ʻOiaʻiʻo, ʻike mākou i ka lapuwale o kēlā. Hopohopo wau i ka moʻo o ka hoʻokaʻawale ʻana i nā keikikāne ʻōpio mai kā lākou makuahine hānai i nā makahiki palupalu, hoʻonohonoho i nā kāne i hoʻomohala ʻole ʻia no ka haʻalele mua ʻana i ka naʻau. ʻO Terry Real, a me nā psychologists ʻē aʻe, ʻōlelo i ka ʻoiaʻiʻo ʻaʻohe noiʻi e kākoʻo i ka kaʻao e lilo nā keikikāne i mau sissies inā kokoke lākou i ko lākou mau makuahine.
Ma hope o kanakolu mau makahiki o ka hana olakino ma ka papa olakino noʻonoʻo, hoʻokahi mea aʻu e ʻike ai ʻoiaʻiʻo he pono ke aloha, ka hānai ʻana, ke kākoʻo naʻau, ke aloha, a me ka pilina. Pehea e lawa ai ke aloha i ke keiki? ʻImi mākou āpau e aloha ʻia a aloha ʻia. ʻAʻole e haʻi ʻia inā e aʻo mākou pehea e aloha ai, pono ALOHA mākou ... nui.
ʻO ka hopena o ke kaumaha kāne e pili ana i ka nui o ka nui o ka pepehi kanaka, nā pilikia o ka huhū, ka hana hoʻomāinoino i ka home, ka hōʻino ʻana i nā lāʻau a me nā pilikia pili, e kāhea ana no ka ʻike hou aku e pili ana i kēia kumuhana. Ke kono aku nei au iā ʻoe e hoʻolohe i ka waihona ma ʻO Radio Radio Pōhaku Kūpono Maikaʻi ma www.nevergoodenough.com e hoʻolohe i nā manaʻo nui i hōʻike ʻia e ka hoʻoponopono ʻohana ʻo Terry Real.
Ke ʻimi mākou, loaʻa. Ke hiki mākou i waho, loaʻa iā mākou ke kākoʻo. Ke mālama mākou, hana mākou i kahi ʻokoʻa.
Nā kumuwaiwai hou aku no ka hoʻōla:
Pūnaewele Pūnaewele: http://www.willieverbegoodenough.com
Puke: E lawa maikaʻi paha wau? Ke hoʻōla nei i nā kaikamahine a nā makuahine Narcissistic http://www.willieverbegoodenough.com/the-book-2/buy-the-book
Puke leo: http://www.willieverbegoodenough.com/the-book-2/buy-the-book
Workshop: Ke hoʻōla nei i nā kaikamahine a Narcissistic Mothers Virtual Workshop. Hana hou i ka pilikino o kou home ponoʻī, hoʻopiha me nā hōʻike wikiō a me nā haʻawina home.
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