Pani i ka hoʻokaʻawale ma waena o ka leʻaleʻa ponoʻī o nā wahine

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Loaʻa iā mākou kahi āpau orgasm. ʻOi aku ka liʻiliʻi o ka hoʻonaninani ʻana o nā wahine heterosexual Cis-gender ma mua o nā kāne heterosexual cis-gender. Ma ke ʻano he laʻana kūpanaha, i ka noiʻi aʻu i alakaʻi ai, 55% o nā kāne a me 4% o nā wahine e ʻōlelo nei he maʻa mau lākou i ka wā hookup wahine mua. Hōʻike kekahi mau noiʻi ʻē aʻe e pili ana kēia āpau, akā ʻaʻole paʻa loa, i ka moekolohe pili. Hoʻokahi noiʻi i ʻike ʻia he 85% o nā kāne vs. 68% o nā wahine i ʻōlelo ua hoʻoleʻaleʻa lākou i ka wā hope loa o ka moekolohe.

I loko o Lilo i Kakauolelo, Nānā wau i nā kumu kaiāulu he nui no kēia āpau — me ia, ma ke ʻano he hoʻokahi laʻana, ka ʻike moekolohe i haʻi ʻole i ka leʻaleʻa a i ʻole ka clitoris. Hāʻawi wau i nā hopena no ka pani ʻana i ka hakahaka, ka moʻomeheu (e laʻa me ka hoʻomaikaʻi ʻana i ka moekolohe ʻana; ka loli ʻōlelo) a me ka pilikino (e laʻa me ka noʻonoʻo, ke kamaʻilio moekolohe maikaʻi). Hoʻohālikelike kahi hopena waena e hōʻoia ana i ka loaʻa ʻana o nā ʻano like o ka stimulate i ka wā o ka wahine a me nā kāne a me nā kāne. ʻLelo wau i ka poʻe heluhelu.

ʻO ka hana koʻikoʻi nui e pono ai i ka orgasm i ka wā o ka moekolohe me kahi hoa e kiʻi i ke ʻano o ka stimulate āu e hoʻohana ai ke leʻaleʻa iā ʻoe iho.

Ke kumu o kaʻu (kūlohelohe a metaphorically) ʻōlelo wiwo ʻole ʻo ia ka ʻoiai aia kahi āpau i ka wahine i loko o ka moekolohe, ʻaʻohe puka i loko o ka moekolohe. Wahi a kahi noiʻi i alakaʻi ʻia e kahi haumāna kaulana, ʻo nā kāne a me nā wahine he kiʻekiʻe loa ka nui o ka orgasm i ka wā o ka masturbation: 94% no nā wahine a me 98% no nā kāne.

ʻO ke kumu nui o ka leʻaleʻa ponoʻī o nā wahine i mea nui i ko lākou kūwaho kūwaho-ʻo ka pinepine ka clitoris, akā ʻo nā mona, nā lehelehe o loko, a me ka hāmama ʻana i ka lua. ʻOiai, ʻo ka hapa nui o nā aʻa aʻa e pono ai nā wahine e hōʻea i ka orgasm aia ma waho o kā lākou genital. Hoʻomaopopo kēia i ke kumu i hoʻokahi noiʻi, e pili ana i ka 86% o nā wahine i hōʻike e pili ana i kā lākou waho kūwaho i ka wā leʻaleʻa ponoʻī. ʻO 12% kekahi i kia nui i waho akā ʻo kekahi manawa a i ʻole i ka manawa like e kau i kekahi mea i kā lākou puʻupuʻu. Ma kahi o 2% wale nō i leʻaleʻa iā lākou iho ma ka waiho wale ʻana i kekahi mea i loko o kā lākou puʻupuʻu.

E wāwahi hou i kēia, i waena o nā 98% o nā wahine i hoʻonāukiuki i ko lākou kino kūwaho, 73% i hana pēlā e kau ana i ko lākou kua, 6% ʻoiai e kau ana i ko lākou tummies, 4% ʻoiai e ʻānai ana i kahi mea palupalu, 2% ma o ka hoʻohana ʻana i ka holo ka wai, a me 3% e ka ʻānai ʻana i kā lākou mau ʻūhā me ka leo maʻamau.

I ka hui pū ʻana, hōʻike kēia mau helu helu i nā ʻōlelo a Elisabeth Lloyd:

ʻO ka mea kupaianaha loa e pili ana i ka wahine masturbation pehea ia e hana ai i ka orgasm a me ka liʻiliʻi e like me ia, me ka mīkini, ka hoʻonāukiuki i hāʻawi ʻia e ka moekolohe.

Ma ka ʻaoʻao ʻē aʻe (ʻaʻohe pun i manaʻo ʻia), ka hoʻonāukiuki a ke kanaka e loaʻa ai ma o ka masturbation a me ka moekolohe (a me nā hana puhi a me nā hana lima) ua like like: nānā lākou i kāna ʻōnaehana moekolohe loa, kāna peni. ʻO ka ʻoiaʻiʻo, ʻo ka ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo masturbation no nā kāne e haʻi iā lākou e hoʻopā iā lākou iho i nā ʻano e like ai me kā lākou peni i loko o kahi ʻōpala. ʻO ka ʻokoʻa, ʻo ka hoʻonāukiuki a ka wahine e loaʻa ai ma o ka masturbation a me ka moekolohe he ʻokoʻa loa ia: ʻo ka masturbation wale nō ka mea e pili ana i kāna mea moekolohe ma waho loa, ka clitoris. Eia naʻe, i ka wā me nā kāne, hoʻololi pinepine nā wahine iā lākou iho, ka mea mua i ka moekolohe ma kahi o.

Ke loaʻa iā ia nā wahine a me nā kāne a me nā kāne, manaʻo nui ʻia ka moekolohe ka hanana nui a me nā mea e hoʻoulu ai i nā clitoral ma mua o ka hoʻokuʻu ʻia ʻana i "foreplay" - kahi hoʻomehana e hoʻomākaukau ai ka wahine no ka moekolohe. o nā mea heluhelu o ka makasina Cosmopolitan i ʻike ʻia i ka wā o ka hālāwai moekolohe e pili ana i ka moekolohe ʻana, no ka lawa ʻole o ka lawa ʻole o ka ʻano kūpono o ka clitoral stimulate.

No laila, e hoʻopau i ka āpau orgasm, pono mākou e hoʻopaʻa i ka stimulus clitoral a me ka stimile penile e like. E like me ka mea i kākoʻo ʻia i kaʻu kūlana hope loa, Hana ʻokoʻa i ka moekolohe, pono mākou e hoʻololi i kā mākou moʻomeheu moʻomeheu maʻamau (foreplay, ka moekolohe ʻana me ka male kāne kāne, ka moekolohe) no nā palapala egalitary hou aku, e like me nā mea huli. Hele mua ʻo ia , ʻO ia ka lua ) a me nā mea e loaʻa ai i nā hoa ʻelua ka hoʻonāukiuki e pono ai i ka wā o ka moekolohe hoʻokahi (e laʻa me ka wahine e hoʻopā ana i kāna clitoris i ka wā o ka moekolohe. Inā he wahine ʻoe, ke kiʻi nei i ka stimulate e pono ai ka manaʻo e kiʻi like i ka ʻano stimulate i ka wā o ka wahine hoa e lawe iā ʻoe i ka orgasm i ka manawa o ka wahine.

ʻElua ala e hoʻolilo ai i kāu ʻenehana ʻoluʻolu iho i ka moekolohe me kekahi poʻe ʻē aʻe. Ke aʻo nei kekahi i kāu hoa i ka mea āu e makemake ai a hana kekahi iā ʻoe iho. Hiki i ke aʻo ʻana i kahi hoa ke noi, no ka laʻana, hoʻolauna iā lākou i kāu vibrator, e hōʻike ana iā lākou i kāu manamana manamana punahele, a i ʻole e haʻi ʻana iā lākou i nā mea maikaʻi i ka wā o ka moekolohe waha. ʻO ka hana ʻana iā ʻoe iho hiki ke hoʻopili ʻia, no ka laʻana, e hoʻohana ana i kou mau lima a i ʻole vibrator ma luna ou iā ʻoe iho i ka wā o ka moekolohe, a i ʻole ke lawe ʻana iā ʻoe iho i ka hopena ma hope o ka moekolohe ʻana ʻoiai e hoʻopaʻa, honi, a palu paha iā ʻoe.

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