E ka 2020 aloha: Ua loaʻa iaʻu ma Stressed a me Root-Bound

Aloha 2020,

Pehea ʻoe e pīhoihoi ai iaʻu. ʻO ka sansevieria, ka alelo mea kanu nahesa / makuahōnōwai wahine, kākaʻikahi ka hua e pua. I ka ʻoiaʻiʻo, hana wale ia ke ʻano haʻahaʻa a hoʻomau pinepine ʻia. Hana kēia i ka wā a paʻa ka aʻa i ka aʻa.

ʻO ka pule i hala, no ka manawa mua loa, ua mōhala koʻu.

He 25 mau makahiki paha kaʻu i loaʻa ai kēia mea kanu. Ke loaʻa iā ʻoe kahi mea a puni no kēlā lōʻihi, poina iā ʻoe ke kūʻai aku iā ia, loaʻa, a i ʻole ua hāʻawi paha kekahi iā ʻoe. Maopopo iaʻu ua kūʻai au iā ia. Makemake au i ka sansevieria. Ua kope hou wau i kēia mea kanu i ʻekolu mau manawa. Hoʻomaʻu kaʻu kāne i ka hoʻomana i hoʻokahi manawa i ka pule.

ʻAʻole ia i mōhala ma mua o kēia manawa.

Pua wale ʻo Sansevierias ke haʻahaʻa a hoʻomau i ke koʻikoʻi. A paʻa aʻaʻa.

ʻO kēlā hoʻokahi Gehena o kahi hoʻohālikelike no 2020.

Ke hoʻokele home nei mai ka hana i nehinei, ua hoʻolohe wau i kahi ninaninau e pili ana i ka burnout. Eia kahi papa inoa pōkole o nā hōʻailona burnout: e lilo i mea loiloi a i ʻole cynical i ka hana; ka huki ʻana iā ʻoe iho e hana a loaʻa ka pilikia i ka hoʻomaka ʻana ke hiki aku ʻoe i laila; e lilo i mea huhū me nā hoa hana; haʻahaʻa ikehu; ʻano kaumaha a hōʻoluʻolu ʻole hoʻi.

Hmmm. Kamaʻāina paha?

Pehea e hana ai mai ka home e hana nei no ʻoe?

E nīnau i ka poʻe 10 inā ke kaumaha lākou, a ʻae wau e pili i ʻeiwa o lākou e ʻae. A, ʻo ia wale nō ka poʻe i loaʻa kahi hana.

He mea paʻakikī ke noʻonoʻo i ka mea e manaʻo ai i kēia manawa no ka lilo ʻana o kahi hana, ua nalowale kahi ʻoihana, ua nele i kahi home, ua nalowale kahi mea aloha. Pāhoihoi ia.

Aloha, Kepakemapa a me ka hoʻomaka o kahi makahiki kula hou!

Mai ka papa mālaaʻo a i ke koleke, e hele mau ana nā miliona o nā haumāna i ke kula i kēia hāʻule ... ma ka home. Ua hoʻololi ʻia he mau kaukani lumi kuke i wahi ma waena o ka hana / kula. A ʻo nā mākua a puni ka honua e palu nei i ka makemakika, ka mōʻaukala honua, a me ka grammar ʻoiai e hoʻāʻo nei i ka manawa like e mālama i kekahi ʻano o ka ʻoihana ola i kā lākou mau hana.

Me he mea lā ʻaʻole lawa kēlā, aia kēlā mea paʻa paʻa.

Ua hoʻopau ʻia nā wā hoʻomaha o ke kauwela. He ʻino nā playdates. ʻO kaʻaina ahiahi me nā hoaaloha ... ʻaʻole. ʻOiai ke hele nei i ka hale kūʻai kūʻai e hōʻike ana i kekahi mau mea keakea, e like me ke kū ʻana i ka laina ʻeono kapua ke kaʻawale ʻoiai ke kali nei ʻo kekahi o nā laki hou aʻe e ʻae ʻia i ka hale kūʻai.

A laila aia ka ulu sansevieria paʻakikī.

Hiki paha ke pua i kēia mau mea āpau?

I kēia manawa, ʻelua mau koho a mākou: hopohopo a noho i kahi moe a kū hou i hoʻokahi manawa hou a hele i kekahi lā me kahi aloha. Hoʻopili ʻia i nā kapu paʻa aʻa o COVID, ʻo ka hapa nui o mākou ʻaʻole e pua pono.

E haʻi ʻia ka ʻoiaʻiʻo, ʻo ka pua keʻokeʻo spiky o ka sansevieria ʻaʻole loa ia e hoʻolilo iā ia i wahine i wahine wahine.

Ma kahi o ka hoʻāʻo nui ʻana e pua, e ʻokiʻoki iā mākou iho a i kekahi i kekahi i ka molowa. E hoʻohiki kākou e kāhea aku i kahi hoa ke manaʻo mākou e like me ka lā, ka manawa, ka hana, nā keiki, a me nā mea nui loa. Ma kahi o ke kīpē ʻana i luna o ka moena, e haʻi iā ʻoe iho e ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o ka hele wāwae, inā paha he hele wāwae wale a puni ka palaka.

E nānā i ka poʻe āu e aloha ai: e kāhea i kou mau mākua, kou mau kaikunāne, kou mau kaikuahine, kāu hoaloha kula kiʻekiʻe loa, kou hoalauna ʻelemakule e noho kaʻawale ana. E kīloi aku i waho. E ʻoluʻolu me kekahi. E kiʻi i ka hiamoe. Akaaka. Huki i kekahi mau nāhelehele. Repot i kahi mea kanu. E noi i kou hoalauna no kahi ʻoki mai kā lākou begonia prized. Maʻalahi ke aʻa i nā Begonias. Hoʻokahi wale nō lau a me kahi aniani i piha i ka wai. Loaʻa i kahi mea punawelewele i ulu nui ʻia me nā pēpē kolo? Oki i kekahi a kaʻana like ia me kou mau hoaaloha.

Aia kekahi mana hoʻōla i ka ʻike ʻana hiki iā ʻoe ke ulu i kekahi mea. ʻAʻole pono ia e nani a i ʻole luscious a kūleʻa paha; ʻo kēlā me kēia mea āu e makemake ai e ulu wale nō e ulu.

Manaʻo wau ʻo ia ka mea ʻoi loa i hiki iā mākou ke hana i kēia manawa. Hiki iā mākou ke ʻōpuʻu. E kupu aʻe kāua a kāhea iā ia e pua.