Disorderative Identity Disorder: ʻO kahi ʻike ponoʻī o ka mea hoʻoponopono
![Dr. Joe Dispenza Life Changing Speech](https://i.ytimg.com/vi/03gFu4UkCtc/hqdefault.jpg)
![](https://a.youthministryinitiative.org/psychotherapy/dissociative-identity-disorder-a-therapists-own-experience.webp)
Hana ko mākou naʻau i nā ala kupaianaha e pale iā mākou mai nā ʻike maikaʻi ʻole e hana ʻia i loko o ko mākou ola. Hōʻike ka poʻe i ʻike ʻia me ka maʻi pilikino dissociative (DID) iā mākou pehea e hiki ai iā mākou ke kūpaʻa i ke ola ʻana i nā ʻehaʻeha a me / a i ʻole ka hana ʻino.
ʻO ka pepa moʻolelo Pūkana o loko ukali iā Karen Marshall, kahi limahana laikini lapaʻau laikini a me ka mea lapaʻau i loea i DID. Ua ʻike ʻia ʻo Marshall me DID iā ia iho a hoʻohana i kāna ʻike pilikino e alakaʻi i kāna mea kūʻai aku ma o ka hana hoʻōla. Hōʻike ke kiʻi ʻelua iā Marshall a me kāna mea kūʻai aku ma nā ʻoihana ʻoihana a pilikino, e hāʻawi ana iā mākou i kahi nānā pili i nā ola o kēlā me kēia lā o ka poʻe e ʻike nei i kēia maʻi.
Hoʻokele ka luna o ke kiʻi ʻoniʻoni ʻo Olga Lvoff i kāna hoʻoholo e kau i ka ʻike pilikino ma mua o ka manaʻo loea. Ua wehewehe ʻo ia i ke kiʻi ʻoniʻoni ma ke ʻano he "puka aniani i ka honua o ka noho ʻana o ka poʻe me DID. Hiki iā ʻoe ke noho pū me lākou. ”
He hohonu ka ʻike ʻana i ke kiʻi ʻoniʻoni. Hoʻopilikia ia i ka poʻe me DID i hiki iā mākou ke kaʻana like i kā lākou mau hoʻāʻo a me nā lanakila. ʻO ke ʻano pili o ke kiʻi ʻoniʻoni e koi iā mākou e nīnau pehea i kūkulu ʻia ai ko mākou lolo ponoʻī a me nā ao o loko. "ʻAe iā mākou e noʻonoʻo i nā kumu he nui i hele i loko o kā mākou ʻike i ka ʻoiaʻiʻo," wahi a Lvoff.
Ma kahi hālāwai ninaninau me ka Trauma & Mental Health Report (TMHR), hāʻawi ʻo Marshall i kahi wehewehe o DID:
"ʻO ka maʻi ʻike dissociative ka ʻike o ka loaʻa ʻana o ʻelua a ʻoi mau pilikino ʻokoʻa a kaʻawale hoʻi i loko o hoʻokahi kino. Hana nā ʻāpana ʻokoʻa ma ke ʻano he kanaka i kekahi ʻano. ”
Hoʻomohala ʻia ʻo DID ma ke ʻano he coping i ka trauma wā lōʻihi a koʻikoʻi hoʻi. ʻOiai ke ʻike nei i nā mea hoʻonāukiuki, hiki i kahi keiki ke hemo mai ko lākou kino kino i kahi hana noʻonoʻo i kapa ʻia ʻo "dissociation." No ka pale ʻana iā lākou iho mai ka ʻeha, hiki i nā ʻāpana o lākou iho ke hoʻokaʻawale i nā ʻano pilikino like ʻole. Pale aku kēia iā ʻoe iho a pau mai ka hoʻomanaʻo ʻana a me ka hoʻomanaʻo ʻana i nā ʻike traumatic. ʻO kēia mau pilikino ʻokoʻa, i kapa ʻia i kekahi manawa me nā "alters," hiki ke hōʻike i nā pae hoʻomohala ʻokoʻa kahi i kū ai ka hana hoʻomāinoino, ʻo ia ke kumu i ʻike ʻia ai nā keiki he nui. Hāʻawi ʻo Marshall i kona ʻike i ka paʻakikī o kēia ola kūloko:
"I kēia mau hiʻohiʻona, ʻaʻole i loaʻa i nā keiki ka manawa kūpono e lilo ai i keiki. ʻO kēia ke kumu nui o ka hoʻōla ʻana i nā ʻōpio o loko. He mea kōkua ke hoʻomohala i kahi ao i loko e komo pū nā hale kumulāʻau a i ʻole nā wailele, kahi mea e ʻoliʻoli ai nā keiki. "
No ka poʻe i loaʻa iā DID, wehewehe ʻo Marshall he mea paʻakikī ke hoʻokaʻawale ʻana i kēia manawa a me nā mea i hala no ka mea ʻo nā ʻāpana o lākou e ʻike nei me he mea lā ke trauma mau nei lākou. Hōʻike mai ʻo Marshall iā mākou i kāna ʻike ponoʻī me DID:
"Ua ʻike wau aia kekahi mea e hana nei me aʻu, akā ʻaʻole hiki iaʻu ke kuhikuhi kikoʻī. Ua hele mai i ke poʻo ma hope o ka hebedoma paʻakikī loa. Ua like wau me he puka e wili nei, e like me ka puka ʻana o kēia mau ʻāpana āpau āpau a ʻaʻohe oʻu mana ma luna o kekahi o ia mau mea. E huki pū wau no ka mea aʻu e hana ai, hāʻule ke hoʻi i ka home, a laila e ala aʻe a hana hou. Ua hana ʻia kēia a hiki i ka manawa i loaʻa ai iaʻu kahi mea lapaʻau i hoʻomaopopo i ka hana me DID. "
Lvoff kaʻana i ka mea nui o ka loaʻa ʻana o ka moho o ka poʻe me DID. Ua hoʻomaopopo ʻo ia ke kumu i koho ai nā mea nui e hōʻike i ke kiʻi ʻoniʻoni, ʻoiai "ua manaʻo lākou e like me ka mea i hoʻolaha ʻia e ka media me DID ʻaʻole i hōʻike ʻia ko lākou leo." Pēlā nō, hōʻike ʻo Marshall ua manaʻo ʻo ia “makaʻu ka poʻe i ka poʻe me DID. Makaʻu i kahi ʻāpana e puka ana e makemake e hōʻeha iā haʻi. ʻOiai, ʻoi aku ka pinepine o ka hoʻowahāwahā ʻana iā lākou iho ma mua o nā mea ʻino ʻē aʻe. "
Ua wehewehe ʻo Marshall i kona mau manaʻo no ka lepili ʻana o ka dissociation ma ke ʻano he maʻi a me ke kaʻina o ka ʻike.
"No kekahi poʻe, hāʻawi ia iā lākou i kahi kumu e ʻae ai i ko lākou ʻike a hoʻomaopopo i ke kumu kūpono ʻole. Ma kekahi ʻano e ʻae ʻia e loaʻa nā pilikia. "
ʻO Rosalee, kahi hoʻololi i kaʻana like i ke "kino" me Marshall, ua hoʻohui pū:
"Inā ʻaʻole kūpono ka inoa i hāʻawi ʻia e kahi hōʻailona, ʻaʻole mākou e mālama, no ka ʻinikua nō ia. He mea ʻokoʻa ia i ka hana a mākou me ʻoe, akā e ʻike mākou ia, hiki iā mākou ke noʻonoʻo me kahi inoa ʻokoʻa. "
ʻO Marshay, kekahi o nā mea kūʻai aku a Karen i hōʻike ʻia i Pūkana o loko , i ka hōʻaʻano o ka ʻae ʻana i kāna hōʻike DID ma loko o ke kiʻi ʻoniʻoni. Ua wehewehe ʻo Rosalee he hana paʻakikī kēia e komo ai:
"ʻO ka ʻae ʻana ʻo ia hoʻi ka hana ʻana me ka ʻoiaʻiʻo aia kekahi mea ʻoluʻolu ʻole i kū ʻia. I kekahi manawa ʻaʻole hiki i ka poʻe ke hele i kēlā wahi pouli, no laila hakakā lākou i ka niho a me ke kui. ”
Ua wehewehe ʻo Marshall i ke ʻano o kāna kuhi DID i ke ʻano o ka launa ʻana me kāna mea kūʻai aku i ka wā o ka therapy.
"Hiki iaʻu ke noʻonoʻo me nā ʻano like ʻole e kōkua i ka poʻe, ʻoiai ʻaʻole makemake lākou iā lākou. I kēlā hihia, maikaʻi, e loaʻa iā mākou kahi ala ʻokoʻa. Me kahi laʻana ʻo Marshay, kuhikuhi mākou i nā ʻano like ʻole e like me nā kala anuenue no ka mea ʻo ia ka mea e pono ai nona. ”
Ma hope o ka hoʻolilo ʻana i ka manawa he nui e nānā ana i ko lākou hōʻeha a me ka luʻu hohonu ʻana i ka wā i hala, ua wehewehe ʻo Rosalee pehea e ʻoliʻoli ai nā ʻāpana ʻokoʻa i loko o ka "kino" i kēia manawa a ʻike i ka hauʻoli. Hoʻomaopopo lākou:
“ʻAʻole makemake mākou e lilo i hoʻokahi kanaka. ʻAʻole maopopo iā mākou pehea, a ʻaʻohe mea kūpono. Pehea ʻoe e lilo ai i hoʻokahi? ʻIke mākou i ka nui, akā ʻaʻole ʻike i ka lilo i hoʻokahi. ”
Hiki iā ʻoe ke nānā i ke trailer no Pūkana o loko ma aneʻi. ʻO ka pepa moʻolelo e kahe pūnaewele ana ma ka mua o Malaki 16th a i ʻApelila 15th.
- Chiara Gianvito, Mea kākau kōkua , Ka Hoʻoilina Ola a me ka Manaʻo Mental
- Luna Hoʻoponopono: Robert T. Muller, ka Hoʻolaha Pūʻali a me ka Hoʻolaha Ola Mental
Kuleana kope Robert T. Muller