Euthanasia: Pehea wau e ʻike ai ke kūpono ka manawa no kaʻu pipi?

ʻEuthanasia. Hāpai ka huaʻōlelo i ka hopena nui o ka naʻau no nā mea aloha holoholona he nui. ʻO nā manawa kūpono inā ua wehe ʻoe i kou puʻuwai i kahi pipi, manaʻo paha ʻoe e hoʻoholo i kahi euthanize i kahi holoholona hoa aloha.

Ke hana nei i kahi hoʻoholo paʻakikī e like me ka hiki ʻole. Hoʻoholo mākou iā mākou iho. Hiki iā mākou ke pahu i hope, e hoʻāʻo nei e loaʻa hou ka manawa me kā mākou mau holoholona. Makau mākou ke "luku" nei mākou i nā holoholona a i ʻole lawe paha i ko lākou ola ma mua.

ʻO nā pae o ka hewa ma hope o ka hoʻoholo ʻana e hiki ke ʻike ʻia he nui loa. Eia naʻe, no ke aha e noho maluhia nei kekahi me ka hoʻoholo a me nā mea ʻē aʻe ʻole? E ʻimi ana kēia ʻatikala i ke kumu ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o ka makua makua no ka hoʻoholo paʻakikī ʻana, a pehea e hele ai i loko.

ʻIke ʻoe i ka maikaʻi o kāu pipi, ʻoiai inā ʻaʻole ʻoe e noʻonoʻo pēlā.

Ka nui o nā manawa e aloha ai nā mākua holoholona hānai e ʻōlelo i kekahi mea ma nā laina o, "Makemake wau e hiki iā lākou ke ʻōlelo a haʻi mai iaʻu i ka mea e hana ai." ʻO ka ʻoiaʻiʻo; Eia nō naʻe, hiki iā lākou ke kamaʻilio a ke kamaʻilio mau nei iā ʻoe, ʻaʻole ma kahi ʻano waha.ʻIke ʻoe i kāu pipi ma mua o ka veterinarian, ʻoi aku ma mua o kāu hoaaloha, ʻoi aku ma mua o kou manaʻo āu e hana nei.

Hiki i nā mākua pīpī ke kānalua i ka manawa a me ka koho lua inā e hana ana lākou i ka mea maikaʻi loa no kā lākou holoholona. Hiki ke maʻalahi ke hoʻolōʻihi i ka hoʻoholo o ka euthanasia i mea e hoʻonui ai i ka manawa me kā mākou mau holoholona. ʻOiai ʻo ka mea aloha holoholona i manaʻo nui ʻia e nānā i ka hoʻoholo ʻana i hiki ai i ka manawa hou, kūlohelohe. Aloha mākou i kā mākou mōkai a manaʻo ka hapa nui o lākou iā lākou he lālā ʻohana, ʻaʻohe mea ʻokoʻa ma mua o ke keiki kanaka. Ke ʻimi nei i kahi manawa kūpono e hoʻolōʻihi ai i ka manawa me kāu pipi i ka hopena o ke ola maikaʻi a olakino ... inā ʻaʻole hoʻolōʻihi ia i ka ʻike o ka ʻeha.

E laʻana, e laʻa, e koho e mālama i kāu holoholona me kahi ʻano hou o ka chemotherapy i ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi, me ka ʻae ʻana i kahi hāʻule kūlohelohe a alakaʻi paha i kahi koho euthanasia o kāu pipi. Makemake nui kekahi mau holoholona i ke kipa ʻana i ka haukapila holoholona i kēlā me kēia lā. Hiki iā lākou ke hoʻolana i ko lākou huelo, ke nānā nei i mua i ka holo kaʻa me ka pīhoihoi, a aloha e aloha i nā mea āpau a honi iā ​​lākou. E noʻonoʻo paha nā holoholona ʻē aʻe i kahi huakaʻi i ka haukapila holoholona. Hoʻopili ʻia kā lākou huelo, haʻalulu lākou a kū nei me nā maka ākea e makemake ʻole e pili i ka ʻike.

ʻO ka laʻana i hāpai ʻia aʻe nei e ʻike a hoʻomaopopo hoʻi i kēlā me kēia ola o ke ola no kā mākou mau holoholona i ka hopena o ke ola a ma loko o kahi kaʻina maʻi kahi mea nui loa. E like me ke kanaka ʻike i kāu pipi a me nā mea e lawe iā lākou i ka hauʻoli nui, a i ʻole ʻeha, pono kēia e hoʻopili i ka hoʻoholo e pili ana i nā koho euthanasia.

Ke hoʻomau nei kaʻu pipi i ka leʻaleʻa i nā mea a lākou e aloha ai?

ʻO kekahi o nā ʻāpana aʻoaʻo nui aʻu e hāʻawi nei i ka manawa a me ka manawa hou kekahi o nā maʻalahi. E hana i kahi papa inoa o nā mea ʻelima e hauʻoli nui ai kāu pipi a hoʻolilo iā lākou iā lākou iho. ʻO kahi laʻana, makemake kaʻu ʻīlio i:

1. E launa me aʻu ma ka puka i kēlā me kēia lā ke hoʻi mai wau i ka hale, e hiʻi ana i ka huelo me ka pīhoihoi.
2. Aloha e pāʻani i ke kiʻi ʻana i kēlā me kēia manawa a lākou e loaʻa ai.
3. Aloha paha i ka ʻai ʻana ma mua o kā lākou makemake e kiʻi.
4. Pāʻani mau me nā ʻīlio ʻē aʻe, ʻo ia hoʻi me ka ʻīlio o ko mākou hoalauna.
5. Nanea i ko mākou hele wāwae ʻana i ka pō a puni ke kaiāulu.

Hoʻomaopopo kēia mau mea ʻelima i nā hiʻohiʻona nani a kū hoʻokahi hoʻi e pili ana i kā mākou ʻano holoholona a me kāna ʻano. Hōʻike ia iā mākou i nā mea a lākou e hauʻoli ai i kēlā me kēia lā a lawe mai i ka maikaʻi i loko o ko lākou ola. Hiki ke ʻōlelo ʻia ʻo kēia mau mea (a me nā mea hou aku!) E hoʻolilo iā lākou i poʻe, e like me nā ʻano like e wehewehe ai i ko mākou ʻano kū hoʻokahi e like me nā kānaka.

Ke hoʻomaka nei mākou e ʻike ma muli o ka makahiki a i ʻole nā ​​maʻi ʻaʻole hiki i kā mākou holoholona holoholona ke leʻaleʻa hou i nā mea a lākou e aloha ai, hāʻawi ia iā mākou i kahi ʻano maikaʻi o ke kamaʻilio e hoʻomaka me kā mākou kauka.

Inā ʻaʻole hālāwai hou kaʻu ʻīlio me aʻu ma ka puka ma hope o ka hana no ka mea ʻeha loa lākou i ka puka ʻana i waho o kā lākou moena ʻīlio, he hae ʻulaʻula nui kēlā e pili ana i ke olakino o kā mākou holoholona. Ke hōʻike nei paha kaʻu pipi i ke ʻano o ke ola ma nā wahi ʻē aʻe, no laila ke hana nei wau i ka mālama ʻeha. Ke hiki ʻole i kaʻu pipi ke aloha iaʻu ma ka puka, pāʻani kiʻi a hele hele wāwae i waho, he aha ke ʻano o ke ola i loko o ke ola o kaʻu hoa? Inā he mea paʻakikī a paʻakikī paha kā kaʻu holoholona i ʻoi aku ma mua o nā mea āpau o ka honua, ke haʻi nei lākou iā mākou, me ka ʻole e ʻōlelo waha, aia paha lākou i nā anuu hope loa o kā lākou huakaʻi.

Hiki iā ia ke kōkua i ka mālama ʻana i kahi alemanaka maʻalahi a me ka nānā ʻana pehea ka hana a kāu pipi i kēlā me kēia lā. ʻOiai kokoke loa mākou i kā mākou mau holoholona a makemake mākou i ka mea maikaʻi loa no lākou hiki ke paʻakikī loa ke hoʻi i hope a me ka loiloi. Hiki i ka hoʻopaʻa ʻana i nā mea i ʻike ʻia ke kōkua iā mākou e hoʻi i hope a ʻike i ke "kiʻi nui aʻe." Hiki ke kōkua i ka hoʻokaʻawale ʻana i kēlā me kēia lā i ke kakahiaka (a ma mua o ke awakea) a me ke awakea a i ʻole ke ahiahi (a ma hope paha o ke awakea). Hiki ke hana ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o kā mākou mau holoholona i loko o kekahi mau manawa ma mua o ka nalowale ʻana o ka ikehu a i ʻole ke hōʻike ʻana i kekahi loli i ko lākou pae ʻeha, no ka laʻana. ʻO ka hoʻopaʻa ʻana i kahi ala e ʻae iā mākou e loiloi a hōʻike i kahi hōʻike o kahi o kaʻu pipi. Ehia mau lā maikaʻi e noho nei? Ehia mau lā maikaʻi ʻole? Ke ʻike nei kā mākou pipi i nā lā he nui me ke ʻano haʻahaʻa o ke ola e pono iā mākou e noʻonoʻo me kā mākou koho.

Ke ʻeha nei kaʻu holoholona?

ʻO ka wehewehe ʻana o ka ʻeha ʻo ia o ka "mokuʻāina o ka ʻeha ʻana, ka pilikia, a me ka paʻakikī." Hiki ke hoʻopaʻapaʻa ʻia ʻaʻole hiki i kā mākou holoholona holoholona ke noʻonoʻo no ka noʻonoʻo abstract e like me mākou i hiki i ke kanaka. ʻAʻole hiki i kā mākou ʻīlio, pōpoki, a lio paha ke hoʻi i hope a ʻōlelo "ʻehaʻeha paha kēia ʻike akā no kahi kumu ia." ʻAʻole lākou e moe i ka hiamoe e noʻonoʻo ana pehea a make paha lākou, ʻelua paha. Hāʻawi kā mākou mau holoholona iā mākou i nā mea hoʻomanaʻo maikaʻi o ka ʻike o ka lā a me ka noʻonoʻo a mākou e poina pinepine ai.

Inā ʻike ʻino kāu holoholona i nā kiʻekiʻe kiʻekiʻe o ka ʻeha mau i hōʻike ʻole ʻia e ka Veterinarian, a laila ʻike maʻamau mākou i nā ʻanuʻu aʻe e pono ai mākou e hana. Inā he ilihune loa kā mākou ʻano holoholona a ʻaʻohe o lākou kuko i ke ola e hōʻike mai paha lākou iā mākou i nā kaʻi e hiki mai ana.

E ʻimi i nā ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo mai nā poʻe ʻē aʻe, akā hilinaʻi i kou ʻōpū.

Hiki iā ia ke lilo i mea nui e ʻimi i nā ʻōlelo aʻo a kāu kauka lāʻau lapaʻau a me nā kauka kauka. Hoʻomaʻamaʻa ʻia a hiki iā lākou ke wehewehe i nā pae o ka holomua o ka maʻi, nā hanana olakino, a me nā manaʻo nui ʻē aʻe e pili ana i ka hopena o ke ola me kā mākou holoholona holoholona. Hiki ke kōkua i ka ʻimi ʻana i ke alakaʻi mai nā hoaaloha a me nā lālā o ka ʻohana e hoʻomaopopo nei me nā manaʻo a mākou e hilinaʻi nei, ʻoiai inā ʻaʻole kūlike ʻole me lākou. Hiki ke maʻalahi ke nānā ʻole i nā ʻōuli pololei ʻoiai mākou kokoke loa i kā mākou holoholona, ​​a i kekahi manawa hiki i kā mākou mau hoaaloha ke ʻike i kahi kiʻi nui aʻe.

He mea nui ia e ʻike mau i ka pili o nā manaʻo o haʻi me kā mākou intuition a me nā mea a mākou e manaʻoʻiʻo ai he kūpono no kā mākou holoholona, ​​ke hoʻolohe wale mākou. Inā mākou e hoʻolohe nei i kā mākou holoholona holoholona i loko o ke kaʻina hana a lākou e haʻi ai iā mākou ma kā lākou hana i nā hana e hiki mai ana.

ʻAʻole maʻalahi ke kaʻina, a ʻaʻole like ia. He aha ke koho kūpono no kekahi pipi a ʻo ke koho ʻē aʻe āpau no kekahi.

Ka hewa o euthanasia.

ʻO ka poʻomanaʻo maʻamau i waena o nā mea nona nā holoholona ma hope o ka euthanasia ka hewa. ʻO ka hewa no ke koho ʻana e "pepehi i kaʻu holoholona." I ko mākou mākaʻikaʻi ʻana ma Nine Myths About Pet Loss a me ka mea maoli ʻoiaʻiʻo, he wahi maʻamau ia e makemake e waiho i ka ʻāhewa ke kaumaha mākou, ʻoiai inā ma luna o mākou kēlā hewa.

ʻO ke koho ʻoi loa, ʻo ka euthanasia, hiki ke lilo i makana aloha a lokomaikaʻi a mākou e hāʻawi aku ai i nā holoholona hoahele e kaʻana like i ko mākou puʻuwai a me ko mākou mau home i kēlā me kēia lā. ʻO ka hiki ke hoʻopau i ka ʻeha i ka hopena o ke ola ke ʻike ʻia he makana e nā mea he nui.

ʻAʻole nō ia e maʻalahi i ke koho, akā he mea nui ʻaʻole e hahau iā ʻoe iho no ka hana ʻana. ʻAʻole kau ka hewa a kā mākou holoholona iā mākou. ʻAʻole lākou e mālama i ka huhū. Hilinaʻi lākou ke hana nei ʻoe i ka hoʻoholo maikaʻi loa no lākou, a ke kōkua nei lākou iā ʻoe i kēlā hoʻoholo ke hoʻolohe nei ʻoe. Hoʻokomo kā mākou mau holoholona i kā lākou mau wāwae i ko mākou mau lima i kēlā me kēia lā, e aʻo ana iā mākou a hōʻike iā mākou i ke ʻano o ke aloha aloha ʻole a noho i loko o kēia manawa. ʻO ka mea liʻiliʻi loa e hiki iā mākou ke hana, ʻo ia ke hoʻihoʻi i kēlā aloha, ʻaʻohe mea o kēlā koho.

ʻO Adam Clark, LSW, AASW he mea kākau i paʻi ʻia, mea aʻo, a he kumu aʻoaʻo hoʻopuka hoʻi ma ke Kulanui o Denver's Grgraduate School of Social Work. Kālele ʻo Adam i kāna hana ma ka psychology ma hope o ka pilina kanaka-holoholona, ​​kūikawā i ka hopena a me nā hoʻololi. Nui kona makemake e pili ana i ka hōʻemi ʻana i ka stigma moʻomeheu e pili pū ana me ka nalo o nā holoholona, ​​ke kākoʻo ʻana i nā ʻohana holoholona, ​​a me ke aʻo ʻana i nā ʻoihana lāʻau. Hiki ke loaʻa nā ʻike hou aku e pili ana iā ʻAdamu a me kāna mau papahana i kēia manawa ma www.lovelosstransition.com, a i ʻole hiki ke kiʻi maikaʻi ʻia iā ia ma [email protected].