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• ʻO ka ʻoiaʻiʻo e pili ana i nā maʻi pilikino

Inā ua nīnau ʻia ʻoe i ka nīnau "He aha ka mea e hoʻokani ai iā ʻoe?" ua paʻakikī paha ʻoe i ka pane ʻana ma mua o kāu i ʻike ai. Ma hope o nā mea āpau, inā ʻaʻole ʻoe i ʻike iā ʻoe iho, ʻo wai ka mea? ʻO ke kumu o ka paʻakikī o kēia nīnau e pane ʻaʻole mākou e noʻonoʻo pinepine e pili ana i kā mākou mau manaʻo maʻamau, nā manaʻo, a me nā ʻano. Ma ke aʻo ʻana e pili ana i nā manaʻo nui o ka psychology, e loaʻa iā ʻoe ka ʻike iā ʻoe iho i ke kumu e hana ai ʻoe i kāu hana a pehea, inā makemake ʻoe, hiki iā ʻoe ke loli.

Manaʻo paha ʻoe ua hoʻoholo ka psychology i ka wā kahiko pehea e wehewehe ai i ke ʻano. Ma hope o nā mea āpau, ʻo kēia kekahi o nā manaʻo kumu e hoʻopaʻa ai nā psychologists. ʻIke ʻia aia he aneane like ka nui o nā wehewehe o ke ʻano e like me ka poʻe psychologists. Mai nā Freudians i nā Skinnerians, a me nā mea āpau ma waena, hāʻawi nā psychologists i nā wehewehe e hōʻike ana i kā lākou kumumanaʻo kumumanaʻo e pili ana i nā kumu o ke ʻano kanaka.

Inā ʻaʻole ʻoe e hāʻawi ʻia i nā hoʻopaʻapaʻa akeakamai a makemake makemake e ʻike pehea e maopopo ai iā ʻoe iho, lana ka manaʻolana. ʻAe ka hapanui o nā psychologists i ka wehewehe hana o ka pilikino e alakaʻi iā lākou i kā lākou hana ʻoihana, noiʻi, a me nā ola pilikino, ʻo kēlā ʻano ke ʻano o ke ʻano o ka pilikino a me ke ʻano. Hoʻomaopopo ka poʻe psychologists ʻokoʻa i nā manaʻo, ka lawena, a me nā kumu kumu i manaʻo ai ka poʻe a hana i kekahi ʻano. Eia nō naʻe, ʻike nā psychologists a pau i ke ʻano he ʻano o ke kanaka, ʻo ia hoʻi ke kumu o nā ʻokoʻa mai kēlā me kēia kanaka.

Ke neʻe nei i mua me kēia wehewehe kumu, e hele a ʻike i ka mea āu e hiki ai ke aʻo mai nā mea noʻonoʻo nui i ka noʻonoʻo psychology.

ʻO nā psychodynamics o ke ʻano

Pono e hoʻomaka kekahi alakaʻi kūpono i ka pilikino me Freud, ka mea i hōʻoia ʻia me ka ʻike ʻana i ka noʻonoʻo noʻonoʻo ʻole. Wahi a Freud, hōʻike ʻia kou pilikino i nā pilina pilina ma waena o ka ikaika a me ka ʻike ʻole i kou alo ʻana i nā pilikia o kou ola. Mālama ʻia mākou āpau e nā pono primal a mākou e ʻike ʻole ai, manaʻo ʻo Freud. Hoʻolālā mākou i ko mākou ola e hoʻāʻo nei e hālāwai me kēlā mau pono ʻoiai, i ka manawa like, hoʻomau mākou me kā mākou mau pilina a me kā mākou ʻimi hana ("aloha a me ka hana," e like me kā Freud e ʻōlelo ai).

ʻOiai ʻaʻole pono nā psychologists o kēia au e kūʻai i ke kumumanaʻo holoʻokoʻa o Freud, ʻae lākou (ʻoi aku a ʻoi paha) ʻo kekahi mea e like me nā ʻano hana pale e alakaʻi i kā mākou hana. No ka pale ʻana iā mākou iho mai ka hopohopo, kūkulu mākou i nā paia pale e mālama i ko mākou noʻonoʻo mai ka ʻae ʻana i ko mākou mau manaʻo a makemake ʻole.

ʻO ke kumumanaʻo o Freud i hoʻomākaukau i ke ala no nā psychologists ma hope e loaʻa ka ʻike o ke ʻano “ʻano” e like me ka introvert, ka narcissist, a me ka neurotic. ʻO ka mea kupaianaha, ʻoiai mākou e noʻonoʻo nei i ke kumumanaʻo psychodynamic e like me ke koʻikoʻi ʻana i nā hana o loko (e like me ke ʻano o ka moekolohe), ua hāʻawi nā Freudians a me nā neo-Freudians i ka nui o ke kaupaona e hānai ma mua o ke kūlohelohe i ka ulu ʻana. ʻO kahi laʻana, komo nā narcissists i ke aloha ponoʻī ma muli o ka nui a i ʻole ka nānā iki ʻana mai ko lākou mau mākua mai.

ʻO kekahi o kāna mau hoa hana pili loa i hoʻokumu i kahi ʻano o Freudian Brat Pack a ua haʻalele iā ia e pili ana i ka moekolohe a me nā ʻano primal ʻē aʻe. ʻO Carl Jung kekahi o nā mea nui loa, nāna i lawe i kekahi mau manaʻo o Freud a hoʻohana iā lākou e hoʻomohala i kāna ʻano ponoʻī o nā ʻano pilikino. Na Jung maoli i hāʻawi mai iā mākou i nā huaʻōlelo "introvert" a me "extravert" e like me kā mākou e maopopo ai iā lākou i kēia lā. Ua hoʻokūpaʻa ʻo Jung i kahi papa hohonu o ka noʻonoʻo e maʻa mau i nā kānaka āpau. Manaʻoʻiʻo ʻo ia iā mākou āpau nā "archetypes" nā propensities e pane i kekahi mau kumuhana ākea. ʻO kekahi o ia kumuhana ka archetype "hero" a, e like me kā Jung, e hoʻoheheʻe ʻia ke pane mākou i nā ʻano kiʻi like me Batman, Superman, a i ʻole ʻo Iesu Kristo. Hoʻokomo ʻia mākou i kēia mau mea no ka mea ua paʻi ʻia kēia mau kiʻi i ko mākou manaʻo noʻonoʻo ʻole.

ʻO ka laina lalo kahi psychodynamic theory e hoʻokūkala i nā ʻāpana o kou noʻonoʻo e pili iā ʻoe i kēlā me kēia lā, ke hele nei i loko ou i waho o kou ʻike ʻike.

Ka pilikino e like me ke ʻano o nā lawena

Kuhi nā manaʻo Behaviourist ʻaʻohe a mākou "ʻano". Wahi a ke kumumanaʻo behaviorist e like me ka mea i hōʻike ʻia e kahi o kāna kumu, B.F. Skinner, pane mākou i nā hanana i ko mākou ola i kēlā me kēia lā ma ke kumu o ka loaʻa maʻamau.ʻO kā mākou pilikino, e like me ka behaviorists, ʻaʻole ʻoi aku i kahi hōʻuluʻulu o nā ala maʻamau o ka pane ʻana a mākou i aʻo ai ma o ka hoʻoikaika a me ka hoʻoikaika ʻana.

ʻO kou mau ʻano pilikino pilikino, e like me ka behaviorist, hōʻike i nā ʻike he nui āu i loaʻa ai mai ka wā hānau a hiki i kēia manawa. ʻO ka nūhou maikaʻi inā ʻaʻole ʻoe makemake i kou pilikino, manaʻoʻiʻo nā conductist hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻololi iā ia ma ka hoʻoponopono hou ʻana i nā ʻikepili o ke kaiapuni e hoʻohuli iā ʻoe. ʻOi aku ka maikaʻi loa o ka behaviourist, ma nā ʻano he nui, e pili ana i ka hiki ke loli ke ʻano.

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ʻO ka ʻoiaʻiʻo e pili ana i nā maʻi pilikino