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Q: "Ehia mau haumāna autistic e hele i ke Kulanui _____?"
A: "Ke manaʻo nei ʻoe i ka nui e haʻi iaʻu, a i ʻole manaʻo ʻoe i ka nui o kaʻu koho ʻana?"
ʻO nā pane mai nā mea hoʻonohonoho lawelawe kīnā ma nā koleka he ʻewalu aʻu i kipa ai me kaʻu kaikamahine ʻo Sam (kokoke i nā papahana liʻiliʻi liʻiliʻi a pau) mai nā mea āpau a i ʻelua mau kakini "ma hope o ko lākou puka ʻana mai ka hana lāʻau e ko lākou makahiki kiʻekiʻe." ʻOiai, ʻaʻohe o kēia mau pā kula i loaʻa kahi neurodiversity. Ua kūpono kēlā me kēia mea hoʻonohonoho lawelawe i kāna pane (he wahine lākou a pau) ma ka hoʻomanaʻo ʻana iaʻu e pono i nā haumāna e hōʻike iā lākou iho i ke koleke i mea e loaʻa ai nā lawelawe. Koho nā haumāna he nui e noho mālie a haʻalele i nā wahi noho i hiki ai ke komo a like me nā haumāna ʻē aʻe. A ʻoiai i waena o kēlā mau haumāna i hōʻike pilikino iā lākou iho i ke koleke, ʻo ka hapanui o nā haumāna me nā "ʻike kīnā ʻole" (e laʻa me ADHD, ASD, kaumaha a me nā maʻi bipolar) e noho hāmau lākou ke noi lākou no ka hana. Akamai paha ia?
E like me ka hapanui o nā koho i pili i ka pilulu kaiapili, ʻo ka pane e pili ia. No kekahi mea e like me kaʻu kaikamahine, ke hoʻolaha nei i kāna autism ma waho pono o ka ʻōpeʻapeʻa me he mea naʻaupō lā. ʻOiai, he kanaka makua ʻo ia i kēia manawa a e hoʻoholo nāna iho, akā naʻu nō e paipai iā ia e hōʻike. Makemake wau e ʻōlelo i ka hoʻolaha ʻana ke koho kūpono, no ka mea e haʻaheo ʻo ia i kāna neuro-ʻokoʻa, no ka mea pono iā ia ke hoʻonani i kāna ʻike kū hoʻokahi o ka honua. Makemake wau e ʻōlelo i kēlā. Akāʻoiaʻiʻo, ʻaʻohe o kaʻu kumu e pili ai i ka haʻaheo kīnā a i ʻole ka ʻike autism. E pili ana ia i ka haʻi ʻana i ka maopopo, e pili ana i ka ʻae ʻana i ka ʻelepani i loko o ka lumi. ʻAʻole ʻike ʻia kāna ʻokoʻa ʻike maka ʻole ʻia ma hope o kekahi mau kekona o ka launa ʻana. Me ka laki, ka wehewehe ʻana i kāna hana e hoʻomanawanui ai ka poʻe āna e launa ai me kāna quirkiness, e like me ka hoʻomanawanui ʻana i ka hana ʻole a ka makapō i kahi lauoho hou. Eia kekahi, ma kahi pae kūpono loa, hoʻolaha paha ka hoʻolaha iā ia i kahi pale kū kānāwai i ka hoʻokae.
ʻOiaʻiʻo, ʻaʻole kēia he kumu e hāpai ai i ke kumu, ʻoiai ʻo ʻApelila, ka mahina rosy o ka ʻae autism. Akā makemake ka poʻe e makaʻu i ka mea a lākou e hoʻomaopopo ʻole ai, a ʻo nā kumu a mākou e hāʻawi ai i ka hana maʻamau ʻole ka mea aloha nui loa. Maikaʻi paha ʻo Sam i ka haʻi ʻana aku i ka mea nīnauele ma mua i ke kumu no ka mea ʻaʻole ia e mālama i ka maka, ma mua o ka waiho ʻana i ka haku hana e manaʻo ʻaʻole makemake ʻo ia i ka hana. Malia paha ʻo ka hoʻolauna ʻana iā ia iho ma ke ʻano he autistic e kōkua iā Sam e hōʻalo i nā ʻōlelo like : "ʻO ka mea kaumaha ʻaʻole wau makemake nui i kaʻu keiki hanauna. ʻAʻole ʻo ia e nānā maka a ʻaʻole aloha ʻo ia. ʻAʻole ia e like me kāna ʻike a me kekahi mea." A, "autistic ʻo ia? No laila ʻo ia ke ʻakaʻaka ʻole i kaʻu mau hoʻomākeʻaka. Ua huhū maoli wau." ʻAʻole hiki i ka hoʻomaopopo ʻana ke alakaʻi i ka pilina, akā hiki i ka ʻae ʻia.
E aʻo paha wau i kaʻu kaikamahine e hōʻike i kāna autism inā loaʻa iā ia ka hiki ke "pass" ma ke ʻano he neurotypical? ʻO ka hapa nui o ka poʻe autistic nāna nā kuanaʻike aʻu e heluhelu ai, a he nui nā poʻe autistic aʻu i ʻike ai, hiki ke hoʻokokoke i ka nohona kaiāulu i manaʻo ʻia - akā ma ke kumukūʻai nui. Hōʻike lākou āpau i ka hoʻokau ʻia mai ka hana, a makemake ka hapa nui o lākou e ʻae ʻia lākou e like me kā lākou autistic iho, ʻaʻole ma ke ʻano he ʻano ʻē a lākou e hoʻokau nei no ka ʻai lehulehu. Pehea e luhi ai ke makaʻala mau no nā ʻōuli huna ʻole i ka nohona kaiakaka hiki ʻole ke wehewehe ʻia. Pehea ka maikaʻi o ka manaʻo ʻaʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻokuʻu i kāu kiaʻi.
I loko o kahi honua kūpono, alakaʻi kēia poʻe autistic i ka huakaʻi haʻaheo o ke kīnā a kōkua ʻana i normalize i ka autism; manaʻo lākou i ka mana e hoʻolaha i ka ʻae ʻana iā lākou iho a me ka ʻae ʻia e ke kaiāulu i ka nui. Akā ua maopopo iaʻu kā lākou koho e hūnā i kā lākou autism. No kekahi, ʻaʻole makemake lākou e wehewehe ʻia e ko lākou autism. No nā poʻe ʻē aʻe, ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o ke koho. E like me nā ʻAmelika ʻAmelika ʻiliʻili ʻili, i pōmaikaʻi i ka mōʻaukala o ʻAmelika, mai ka maikaʻi o ka hele ʻana ma ke ʻano he poʻe Caucasians, he poʻe autistic i hui pū me ka pōmaikaʻi mai ka hele ʻana ma ke ʻano he neurotypical. ʻO ka hana, ka hale, nā manawa kūpono i ke kaiāulu, a me ke kū ʻana o ke kaʻa ke hopena i nā hopena maikaʻi aʻe ke ʻike ka poʻe i ka mana e hoʻoholo i kekahi mea o lākou iā mākou iho.
ʻO ka ʻoiaʻiʻo maikaʻi ʻole ʻo ia ka hoʻokae a me ka hoʻokolokolo maikaʻi ʻole e hoʻomalu i kā mākou mea maoli i kēia manawa.Hōʻoia ka noiʻi i ka mea a mākou āpau e ʻike ai he ʻoiaʻiʻo: Hoʻokumu ka poʻe i kahi manaʻo e pili ana i nā mea hou i loko o kekona, kūpaʻa kēlā mau manaʻo, a maikaʻi ʻole kēlā mau hiʻohiʻona ke autistic ka mea pili.
ʻO kahi noiʻi e koi ana e "ʻike" i nā poʻe e hana wikiwiki, i nā manaʻo maikaʻi ʻole o nā hoaloha hou e nānā a hana paha i nā ʻano kamaʻāina. He aha ka mea hoihoi e pili ana i kēia noi ʻana ua ʻike ʻia ʻaʻole maikaʻi ʻole nā hoʻokolokolo e pili ana i nā poʻe autistic - inā hāʻawi ʻia ka "luna kānāwai" me kahi palapala kākau wale nō. I ka manawa i lawe ʻia ai nā kiʻi, a me nā mōlina kaulele ʻole mai nā nīnauele wikiō, i loko o ka hoʻohuihui, ua hoʻokolokolo ʻia nā kumuhana autistic ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi a me ka liʻiliʻi o ke kono ʻia ʻana i ke aloha ma mua o kā lākou mau hoa neurotypical. ʻO kā lākou ʻano, ke kūlana, ka prosody vocal, a me nā koho lole i hoʻoliʻiliʻi i nā ʻōpio autistic a me nā mākua (ʻelua hui kaʻawale) mai nā mea kōkua manawaleʻa o ke aʻo. E like me ka hopena o kēia mau kānaka noiʻi.
Inā ʻo kā mākou pahuhopu e hoʻomaikaʻi i ka hana kaiaulu no nā poʻe me ASD, no laila he mea nui like paha e aʻo i nā poʻe ʻē aʻe e makaʻala a ʻae i ka ʻokoʻa hōʻike kaiāulu, ma mua o ka hoʻāʻo ʻana e hoʻololi i nā mea i hoʻopili ʻia o ka hōʻike pilikino ʻana e hōʻailona i nā huaʻōlelo. o nā kānaka me ASD e like me ke ʻano atypical.
ʻAe ʻae nō wau, a ʻo ka manaʻolana e pili ana i kaʻu ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo e hōʻike ai, ʻo ke aʻo ʻana i nā poʻe ʻē aʻe e ʻae hou aku iā lākou. ʻAʻole pono ia he hana na kaʻu kaikamahine e hōʻemi i ka hōʻoluʻolu o haʻi. ʻO ʻApelila ka malamaʻae autism. Hiki i ka poʻe autistic ke ʻae iā lākou iho inā ʻaʻole ka poʻe e paʻa ana i nā kī i nā manawa kaiaulu e ʻae iā lākou?
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