Pehea e hiki ai i ke kamaʻilio kolohe ke pale aku i ka hana kolohe

ʻO ke kamaʻilio ʻana i nā keiki e pili ana i ka moekolohe hiki ke lilo i kamaʻilio paʻakikī no nā mākua. ʻO ka nūhou maikaʻi e hana nei ka hapa nui o nā mākua: ʻO kahi ana e Placed Parenthood a me ke kikowaena no Latino a me ke ola ʻōpio ʻōpio ʻike ʻia he 82 pākēneka o nā mākua e kamaʻilio nei me kā lākou keiki e pili ana i ka moekolohe. Eia hou, ke hoʻomaka nei kēia mau kamaʻilio ʻana, me ka hapa o nā mākua e hōʻike nei ua kamaʻilio lākou i kā lākou keiki ma mua o ka makahiki 10 a 80 pākēneka e kamaʻilio ana i kā lākou keiki e pili ana i ka moekolohe ma mua o ka makahiki 13.

Eia nō naʻe, noʻonoʻo mau nā mākua he nui i ka "kamaʻilio moekolohe" ma ke ʻano he kamaʻilio hoʻokahi e pili ana i nā mīkini o ka moekolohe. Kūkākūkā nā loea aʻo moe kolohe e pili ana nā kūkākūkā o ka moekolohe i nā kūkā kamaʻilio nui ʻana e pili ana i nā kūkākūkā o ka moekolohe maikaʻi. He mea nui kēia no ka pale ʻana i ka hana kolohe me ka mea i manaʻo ʻia ma kahi o hoʻokahi o ʻekolu mau ʻōpio e hōʻeha ʻia i ke kino, ka moekolohe, ka naʻau a me ka waha paha mai ka hoa aloha i ka wā ʻōpio. ʻO hoʻokahi haʻawina nui o nā ʻōpio ma waena o 12 a me 18 i ʻike he 18 pākēneka e hōʻike nei i ka hana hoʻomāinoino ʻia i kā lākou mau pilina. Hoʻomaka ka hana hoʻomāinoino i nā pilina ma waena o nā makahiki o 12 a me 18, no laila ke ʻano o kēia mau makahiki nui e hoʻokūpaʻa i nā ʻano ʻoluʻolu a ʻae ʻole hoʻi i ka pilina olakino. Hōʻike ka noiʻi i nā ʻōpio i hiki ke kamaʻilio me ko lākou mau mākua e pili ana i ka moekolohe ke lohi paha i ka moekolohe a komo i nā hana moekolohe palekana ke loaʻa ka moekolohe iā lākou. ʻOiai hopohopo kekahi mau mākua i ke kamaʻilio ʻana e pili ana i ka moekolohe e hoʻonui i ka likelike o ka moekolohe a kā lāua keiki, ua loaʻa nā haʻawina i ka ʻaoʻao ʻē aʻe. Ua ʻike ʻia kahi ana o nā ʻōpio e kaʻana like ka poʻe ʻōpio i ka waiwai o kā lākou mau mākua e pili ana i ka moekolohe a ʻoi aku ka maʻalahi o ka hoʻoholo ʻana e hoʻolohi i ka moekolohe inā hiki iā lākou ke kamaʻilio ākea i ko lākou mau mākua.

Ma lalo iho nei kekahi mau alakaʻi no nā mākua e ukali ai ke kamaʻilio ʻana me kā lākou keiki e pili ana i ka moekolohe olakino a me ka wehe ʻana i nā laina o ke kamaʻilio.

1. ʻAʻole pono hoʻokahi wale nō "kamaʻilio moekolohe." E hoʻomaka ke kamaʻilio moekolohe ma nā pae kūpono makahiki (ʻo ia hoʻi ka lepili ʻana i nā ʻāpana o ke kino me nā inoa pololei anatomically) ke lawa ka nui o kāu mau keiki e hoʻomaopopo a hoʻomau i ka wā ʻōpio a me ka ʻōpio makua i ka manawa maʻamau. ʻO ka pahuhopu o kēia mau kamaʻilio ʻana e wehe i nā kahawai o ke kamaʻilio i hiki i nā keiki a me nā ʻōpio ke ʻoluʻolu ke hele mai e kamaʻilio me nā mākua e pili ana i nā pilikia e pili ana i ka pili a me ka moekolohe.
2. ʻAʻole pono e kūkala nā kūkākūkā o ka moekolohe. Ke ʻōpio nā keiki, pane maʻalahi i kā lākou nīnau i nā pae kūpono i ka makahiki me ka ʻoiaʻiʻo. Paipai ka CDC i ke kamaʻilio kūpono ʻole ʻana me nā ʻōpio e holo pono paha ke hiki mai ka manawa kūpono. ʻO kahi laʻana, hōʻike lākou he paʻakikī paha nā kamaʻilio helehelena i nā makahiki ʻōpio, a ʻo nā kūlana e like me ke kaʻa ʻana i ke kaʻa he manawa kūpono paha ia e hoʻopuka ai i kēia mau kumuhana o ke kamaʻilio.
3. Hele pū nā kūkākūkā o ka moekolohe olakino me nā kūkākūkā o ka pale ʻana i ka hana kolohe. E like me ka makemake o nā mākua e pale aku i ka hoʻomāinoino moekolohe, i mea e hana ai pēlā, pono pū ke kamaʻilio me ke kūkā kamaʻilio e pili ana i ka moekolohe maikaʻi. ʻO ka hilinaʻi o ke kino (ʻaʻole hilahila e pili ana i kāu genital a me ka moekolohe maʻamau) e pili ana i ka moekolohe a me ka hoʻoweliweli ʻole.
4. Aia ma mua o 75% o ka hoʻolālā manawa nui i kekahi ʻano o ka moekolohe, a nui ka ʻike moekolohe ma ka pūnaewele. No laila, he mea nui e ʻike nā mākua i kahi e aʻo ai kā lākou keiki e pili ana i ka moekolohe a me ka mea a lākou e aʻo nui ai. Makemake nā mākua e hōʻoia i ka ʻike a kā lākou keiki e loaʻa nei me ka pololei a me ka olakino a me nā manaʻo i hōʻike ʻia i ke aniani o ka ʻohana.
5. Pono e hoʻomaha a hāmama nā mākua i ke kamaʻilio ʻana i ka moekolohe me kā lākou keiki. Inā ʻike nā keiki he ʻoluʻolu nā mākua e kamaʻilio e pili ana i kēia kumuhana a laila e ʻimi paha lākou i ke alakaʻi a nā mākua i ka wā e hiki mai ana.
6. Hōʻalo i ka hoʻokahuli nui. He mea maʻamau no nā mākua e hoʻonāukiuki ke lohe lākou i ka ʻike makemake ʻole a hoʻoweliweli iā lākou / e hōʻoluʻolu ʻole iā lākou. E hoʻomanaʻo i nā hopena maikaʻi ʻole a nā mākua e hoʻouna ai i ka leka i nā keiki ua hana lākou i kahi mea maikaʻi a maikaʻi ʻole paha. Hiki iā lākou ke hoʻohilahila iā lākou a laila e hoʻemi ana i ka likelika o ke kiʻi ʻana i nā mākua i ka wā e hiki mai ana.

Pili ka kamaʻilio ma waena o ka makua a me ke keiki i ka pale ʻana i ka hana ʻino. ʻOiai ka nui o nā kula e hana i kekahi ʻano o ke aʻo ʻana, hana pinepine ʻole kēia a ʻaʻole paha ia e uhi i nā ʻaoʻao āpau o ka moekolohe a me ka pale ʻana i ka hana kolohe. No laila, na nā mākua e hōʻoia e loaʻa i nā keiki ka ʻike e pono ai lākou e palekana. Pono nā mākua e kamaʻilio me nā keiki i nā manawa maʻamau e pili ana i ka moekolohe olakino olakino. E loli kēia mau kamaʻilio i ke ʻano a me ka hana ke hele a makua nā keiki, akā hōʻike ke noiʻi i ka loaʻa mau ʻana o kēia mau kamaʻilio ʻana me nā keiki i mea e pale aku ai iā lākou mai ka moekolohe.