ʻO ka Intrapsychic Conflict a me nā ʻōnaehana ʻohana pono ʻole

Kakaʻikahi nā noiʻi i nānā pehea e hoʻoili ʻia ai nā pilikia pilikino mai kekahi hanauna a i kekahi hanauna. ʻO ke koʻikoʻi o nā noi i kēia lā ka hapanui o nā mea biogenetic.

Eia nō naʻe, hōʻike ʻia nā ʻano haʻawina like i hana ʻia ma ia kumuhana. ʻOiai ʻaʻohe mea hoʻokahi a hoʻokahi ka hoʻopili ʻana (no ka mea ua loli ka ulu ʻana o ka poʻe e nā hana chaotic o nā kaukani he mau ʻano like ʻole - genetic, biological, interpersonal, a me sociological), e hāʻawi ʻia paha kekahi mau pilikia.

Nā laʻana o nā haʻawina i nānā i ka hoʻolilo o kekahi ʻano o nā lauana pono ʻole mai kekahi hanauna e hōʻike, e komo pū me:

Nā haunaele palena e like me ka pale ʻana o ka makuahine a i ʻole nā ​​pilina i hōʻike ʻia e ka nele o ke aloha, enmeshment, a me / a makua / keiki hoʻi i nā hana hoʻohuli (Jacobvitz et. Al., Hoʻolālā a me Psychopathology ); ka hiki ʻole o ka naʻau me nā mākau hoʻopaʻi maikaʻi ʻole me nā keiki (Kim et. al., Ka Nūpepa o ka Psychology ʻohana ); hoʻohui lāʻau hoʻomāinoino pu me ka hoʻomāinoino keiki a me / a mālama ʻole paha; a me nā pae haʻahaʻa o ka mākaukau ʻohana (Sheridan, Hana hoʻomāinoino keiki a mālama ʻole ).

I mea e maopopo ai i ke kaʻina hana i hoʻoili ʻia ai kēia mau hiʻohiʻona, e hoʻohui a hoʻololi i nā manaʻo mai nā "kula" like ʻole o ka psychotherapy he papahana maikaʻi. Ma kēia kūlana, e nānā wau i ka pilina ma waena o ʻelua mau manaʻo: Ke ʻano hanauna ʻekolu o ka hana pono ʻole mai ke ʻano ʻōnaehana ʻohana Bowen, a me ka hakakā intrapsychic mai ka psychodynamic therapy. He mau hakakā kūloko ka poʻe ma waena o kā lākou makemake maoli a me nā waiwai a lākou i komo ai i ko lākou ulu ʻana i loko o kā lākou ʻohana a me ka moʻomeheu.

Ua hōʻike mua ke kākāʻōlelo mea hoʻopili ʻo Bowlby i ka hoʻoili intergenerational, ʻaʻole ma o ka nānā ʻana i nā ʻano hana e like me "abusiveness" a i ʻole nā ​​diagnoses psychiatric per se, akā ma o ka hanauna a me ka hoʻomohala ʻana i nā hiʻohiʻona noʻonoʻo o ka hana interpersonal i ka manaʻo o nā keiki i hoʻopilikia ʻia. Kāhea ʻia kēia mau hiʻohiʻona noʻonoʻo e hana ʻia i kēia manawa nā skema e nā psychodynamic a me nā mea hoʻomohala noʻonoʻo. Hoʻokomo pū ʻia ka manaʻo ma lalo o ka rubric "theory of mind" a i ʻole "mentalization" e kekahi pūʻulu psychodynamic therapists. Hiki iā mākou ke nānā i nā ʻike kumuhana o nā keiki e pili ana i ko lākou ulu ʻana.

ʻO Zeanah lāua ʻo Zeanah ( Kaukaʻi ) kūkākūkā i ka manaʻo o ka hoʻonohonoho ʻana i nā poʻomanaʻo. ʻLelo lākou ua hōʻike ʻia nā noiʻi i ka hoʻomāinoino ʻana o nā makuwahine i ke ʻano o nā kumu kāne kāne i kā lākou mau keiki ponoʻī ke hoʻohālikelike ʻia me nā keiki a haʻi. ʻO ka mea maʻamau, hana lākou me ka huhū hou a me ka minamina liʻiliʻi i nā wikiō wikiō o nā pēpē uē ma mua o nā makuahine hōʻino ʻole. Ke manaʻo nei ʻaʻole e ʻike ʻia a ʻike ʻole ʻia kēia mau hiʻohiʻona e nā keiki ma o kā lākou launa ʻana i kēlā me kēia lā me ko lākou mau mākua, a ʻaʻole e pili i ka hoʻomohala ʻana i kā lākou papahana, e naif loa ia.

I ka manawa hou, ua hōʻike nā makuwahine hoʻomāinoino i nā ʻōlelo hoʻoweliweli ʻē aʻe o ka haʻalele ʻana a me ka hoʻohuli ʻana i nā kuleana me ko lākou makuahine ponoʻī ma mua o ka mālama ʻana i nā makuahine.

ʻO kēia mau hopena paha ka piko o ka hau hau e pili ana i nā hōʻike maalea o ka hana hou ʻana o ka pilina makua a me ke keiki, a e like me ka Zeanahs i ʻōlelo ai, "ʻO nā hiʻohiʻona e pili ana i ka pili e manaʻo ʻia he hopena i ʻoi aku ka hopena ma mua o nā hanana traumatic kikoʻī."

I ka hoʻomaka ʻana o Bowen therapists e hana genograms o kā lākou mau mea maʻi, ka mea e wehewehe ai i nā launa pilina ʻohana ma mua o ʻekolu mau hanauna, ua ʻike lākou i kekahi mea ʻaʻole i wehewehe nui ʻia i nā noiʻi empirical. ʻOiai kekahi mau keiki o nā mākua hana pono ʻole i loaʻa nā pilikia e like me ko lākou mau mākua - e like me ka hōʻino ʻana i ka lāʻau - ua hana kekahi mau keiki ʻē aʻe i nā ʻano hana i kūlike ʻole - lilo lākou i mau ʻōpio!

Ua ʻike wau i kēia ʻano mea i nā manawa he nui i ka lawe ʻana i nā moʻolelo ʻohana e pili ana i ka genogram mai kaʻu mau maʻi ponoʻī. ʻO kahi keikikāne hana pū kekahi e lilo i mea hana, ʻoiai ʻo kona kaikaina e lilo i mea lohi i hiki ʻole ke kau i kahi hana, a i ʻole e hopohopo e nānā i hoʻokahi a hele i ke kīnā o kekahi ʻano. A i ʻole i hiki i ka makuakāne hana.

I ka ʻoiaʻiʻo, i kekahi mau ʻohana he nui nā meaʻona lama, ʻo ka hanauna hou he nui o nā teetotalers, a ʻo ke kolu o ka hanauna e hoʻi i ka nui o nā meaʻona lama. A i ʻole nā ​​kūleʻa kupaianaha i kekahi hanauna e ukali ʻia e nā holomua kupaianaha i ka wā e hiki mai ana. ʻO McGoldrick lāua ʻo Gerson, i kā lāua puke Nā Genograms i ka Heluhelu ʻohana , nānā i nā genograms o kekahi poʻe kaulana e like me Eugene O'Neill a me Elizabeth Blackwell a loaʻa koke i kēlā mau hiʻohiʻona.

Inā kūlike ʻole kēia ʻano pilikia, he paʻakikī e wehewehe i ke ʻano o ka hanauna o nā mākua like i kahi ʻē aʻe, a kūʻē ʻē aʻe i ko lākou mau mākua ponoʻī. No laila he aha ka mea e hana nei i ka psychologically i waena o ka poʻe e alakaʻi i ka hana interpersonal me kā lākou keiki ponoʻī e hana i nā ʻano ʻano ʻē.

ʻO kēia kahi e komo ai ka hakakā intrapsychic. E ʻōlelo he makua ʻōpio kahi makuakāne i ka wā o Great Depression o nā 1930. Ua ulu ʻo ia i ka manaʻo e wehewehe ka hana iā ia, a ua koi ʻia iā ia e waiho i kona ihu i ka pōhaku i mea e kākoʻo ai i kona ʻohana. Ua laki ʻo ia i ka loaʻa ʻana o kahi hana, akā ua hoʻokaumaha kona haku i kona ola. ʻAʻole hiki iā ia ke haʻalele no ka mea ʻaʻole hiki iā ia ke kiʻi i kahi hana ʻē aʻe, a no laila ua hoʻomaka ʻo ia e huhū ʻole i nā waiwai āna i wehewehe ai iā ia iho.

Hiki iā ia ke alakaʻi iā ia e hoʻomohala i kahi hakakā intrapsychic ma luna o ka hana paʻa e hoʻomaka e wāwahi iā ia. Hiki iā ia ke pili i kāna mau keikikāne ma ke ʻano - maalea loa - e hōʻike ana i kahi keiki kāne e like pū me ia, ʻoiai ke keiki ʻē aʻe e uku pānaʻi ʻia no ka hana ʻana i ka huhū huna a ka makuakāne i ka hana nui a me ka mōhai ponoʻī. .

Pēlā nō, hiki i kahi mea maʻi ke hele mai nā mākua haipule koʻikoʻi loa nāna i hōʻole i nā hana hedonistic āpau, akā nāna i haʻi aku i kā lākou keiki e pili ana i nā ʻino o ka ʻona ma ke ʻano huikau. Kū pinepine kēlā ʻano kānalua i loko o lākou no ka loaʻa ʻana o nā leka kāwili ʻia mai nā mākua ponoʻī mai. Hoʻokomo paha kā lāua keikikāne e kipi, a no laila alakaʻi i kahi nohona licentious, inu waiʻona. Luku pinepine kēlā kanaka iā ia iho i ke kaʻina hana, no ka mea inā ʻike kona mau mākua iā ia ke kūleʻa ʻoiai inu, ʻo ia ka mea e hoʻonui ai i ka hakakā i kona mau mākua a hoʻoneʻe iā lākou. E makaʻu nā manaʻo o ka makua iā ia. No laila lilo ʻo ia i mea ʻona ʻona hoʻopōʻino iho.

ʻO kāna ʻano e ʻano kūlike ʻole. E ukali ana ʻo ia i nā koi koi a kona mau mākua a e ʻae ana i kahi mau hiʻohiʻona o lākou, ʻoiai i ka manawa like e hōʻike ana i kona mau mākua e kaomi ana i ka ʻiʻo ke ala e hele ai.

I ka hanauna e hiki mai ana, "kipi" paha kāna mau keiki e like me ia, akā ʻo ke ala wale nō e hiki ai iā lākou ke hana pēlā ma ka hele ʻana i kahi ʻaoʻao ʻē aʻe loa. Lilo lākou i mau ʻōpio. ʻO kā lākou mau keiki, "kipi" e ka lilo ʻana i mea ʻona.

Ke hoʻomaʻalahi nui nei wau i kēia kaʻina hana no laila maopopo ka ʻōkuhi kumu i ka mea heluhelu, akā ʻike wau i kēia ʻano o nā lauana - me nā wili a me nā huli kupaianaha - i kēlā me kēia lā i kaʻu hana.