Ma ka ʻai Junk a me ka wahine wahine

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"ʻO ka meaʻai nui e like me ka moekolohe nui. ʻO ka nui o kāu makemake i ka nui." —Gael Greene

Pili ka moekolohe a me ka meaʻai i nā ʻano he nui. Kūlike like lākou i ka ʻōlelo o ka pono? ʻO ka moekolohe ma waho o kou hale e like me ka pono a ʻoluʻolu hoʻi e like me ka ʻai ʻana i waho?

Ka moekolohe a me ka meaʻai

“Hanai kaʻu ipo aloha iaʻu me ke kokoleka poʻokela a me ka tī ʻōmaʻomaʻo ma hope o ka moekolohe; Makemake mau au i ka moekolohe e wikiwiki. ” —He wahine i mareia

Ma loko o ka mōʻaukala, pili ka ʻai ʻana a me ka moekolohe ma nā ʻano like ʻole. I nā ʻike ʻelua, pili nā manaʻo āpau a me nā pāʻina maikaʻi, ʻo ia hoʻi nā mea me ka waina, e hoʻoulu i kahi lewa aloha. Aia kekahi ʻano o nā meaʻai, e like me ke kokoleka, nā ʻoma, a me nā ʻōlio, i manaʻo ʻia e hoʻonui i ka makemake moekolohe. ʻIke ʻia nā mea ʻai ʻē aʻe he erotic no ko lākou ʻano a me ke ʻano — e laʻa me ka maiʻa, asparagus, a me ka avocado. ʻO nā meaʻai ʻē aʻe, e like me ka kirīmiuma whita a me ka kokoleka i hoʻolaha ʻia, i kekahi manawa he ʻāpana o kahi pāʻani moekolohe.

ʻO ka moekolohe, ka ʻai ʻana a me ka pono

"ʻAʻohe pilikia o ka moekolohe ma mua o ka ʻai ʻana i kahi pāʻina maikaʻi." —Catherine Hakim

"Ua ʻoi aku koʻu aloha iā ʻoe ma mua o ke kofe, akā mai ʻoluʻolu e hōʻoia mai iaʻu." —Elizabeth Evans

Kākoʻo ʻo Catherine Hakim (2012) ʻo ka hālāwai ʻana me kahi ipo huna no ka hālāwai maʻamau e like me ka maʻamau ma ka hale ʻaina ma kahi o ka ʻai ʻana ma ka home. ʻAe ʻo Hakim me ka poʻe i manaʻo ʻole i ka makemake moekolohe ma ke ʻano he naʻau, akā ʻo ka hoʻokalakupua olaola e like me ka pololi a me ka make wai. I kona manaʻo, "ʻO ka mea nui a mākou e ʻai nei i ka hapa nui o nā meaʻai ma ka home me nā kāne a me nā hoa ʻaʻole ia e pāpā i ka ʻai ʻana i nā hale ʻaina e laʻana i nā kuke a me nā ʻano like ʻole, me nā hoaaloha a me nā hoa hana."

Ua hōʻole ʻo Roger Scruton (1986) i ka hoʻohālikelike ma waena o ka moekolohe a me ka makemake i ka meaʻai. Kūkākūkā ʻo ia ʻo ka makemake moekolohe wale nō kahi pane pilikino e pili ana i ka ʻike o kekahi me ke ʻano he kanaka kūʻokoʻa i hiki ke hoʻololi ʻia e kekahi, a ʻaʻole ia he ala i kahi hopena, akā he hopena ma kāna kuleana ponoʻī. Panina ʻo Scruton ʻo ka mea e hoʻokaʻawale ai i ka moekolohe mai ka pōloli ʻaʻole ia ke ʻano o ka impulse iho, akā ke ʻano o kēlā mau mea i kuhikuhi ʻia iā ia.

Pololei ʻo Scruton, a ʻo ia ke ʻano momona o ka mea ʻokoʻa e hoʻokaʻawale ʻokoʻa ma waena o ka ʻai ʻana a me ka moekolohe ʻana. ʻAʻole e huhū kahi hale ʻaina inā ʻai ʻoe ma laila hoʻokahi wale nō manawa, akā e hōʻeha paha kāu hoa wahine inā ʻoe e mālama iā ia me ke ʻano hoʻohaʻahaʻa a me ka disposable.

ʻO kekahi hoʻohālikelike ma waena o ka ʻai ʻana a me ka moekolohe ʻo ia ka "whetting i kou makemake ma waho, ʻoiai ke ʻai nei hoʻi ma ka home." ʻAʻole like ia me ko Hakim manaʻo, ʻaʻole hoʻohālikelike kēia hana i nā lumi moe me nā hale ʻaina, akā hoʻohui wale ʻo “wale” iā lākou i kahi ala e mālama mau nei i ka ipu nui (a me ka mea ʻaina) ma loko o ka hale a ʻaʻole ma waho.

E like me nā manaʻo ʻē aʻe, makemake nui ka moekolohe i ke kanaka. ʻO ka wī a me ka make wai ka mau manaʻo, e hōʻike ana i nā kūlana o ka nele. ʻO ke kuleana o ka manaʻo i ka hoʻoulu ʻana i ka pōloli a me ka make wai he mea liʻiliʻi ia ma mua o ka makemake moekolohe. Hiki iā ʻoe ke noʻonoʻo i kahi pāʻina maikaʻi, akā ʻaʻole hiki i kēlā mau manaʻo ke hoʻololi i ka ʻai maoli. ʻLelo ʻia ua loaʻa ka Greek Greek Diogenes the Cynic i ka hana maʻamau i ka lehulehu. I ka wā i hōʻino ʻia no kāna hana, ua wehewehe ʻo ia: "Makemake wau e hamo i koʻu ʻōpū e māʻona ai ka pōloli."

E like me ka ʻai ʻana, hiki ke hana ʻia ka moekolohe ma nā wahi like ʻole a me nā poʻe like ʻole. Eia nō naʻe, ʻaʻole ke ʻano o ka hoʻololi i ke ʻano o ka moekolohe (a me ke aloha aloha) e pili ana ke aupuni a ka lehulehu a ua like ia me ka lilina - ʻo ka pinepine pinepine ʻia, ʻoi aku ka ʻono. ʻO ka mea ʻē aʻe, hiki i ka poʻe e pani wikiwiki i kā lākou ipo aloha a wahine paha ke pilikia i ka hana ʻana i nā pilina aloha hohonu. ʻOkoʻa ka ʻai ʻana; ʻaʻohe pilikia e pili ana i ka ʻaina ma nā hale ʻaina ʻokoʻa. No laila, ʻaʻole hiki iā mākou ke unromantic e pili ana i ka moekolohe ʻoiai mākou e pili ana i ka ʻai ʻana, ʻoiai aia kekahi mau hihia kahi i pili ʻole ai ka makemake moekolohe me ke aloha aloha. Manaʻo ka poʻe he nui hiki i ke aloha a me ka moekolohe ke kaʻawale akā makemake lākou e hoʻohui ʻia. Eia kekahi, ʻo ka hapa nui o ka poʻe e noʻonoʻo i ka moekolohe ma waena o kā lākou hoa a me ka mea hoʻokūkū i kahi hoʻoweliweli i ko lākou aloha aloha.

ʻO ka wahine kāne a me nā pilina aloha aloha

"ʻO ka moekolohe ka mea e like me ka mea ʻai maikaʻi ʻole. —No ka Papa Wehewehe Huaolelo o na kulanakauhale

“Ke ʻai nei au i ka sanwī me ka ʻole mayonnaise, lettuce, ʻōmato, a me ka tī me kaʻu wahine. I kēia manawa hiki iaʻu ke ʻai i ka sanwī āpau. ʻO kaʻu mea aloha ka mea aloha a me nā mea ʻai. . . kaʻu wahine i kaʻiʻo a paʻa paʻa paha i loaʻa iaʻu ma kahi o 25 mau makahiki! Me nā mea ʻelua i koʻu ola, māʻona wau akā ʻaʻole piha piha. " —He wahine i mareia

ʻO ka hoʻohana pono ʻana i ka huaʻōlelo “ʻōpala” e hōʻike ana he ʻoi aku ka haʻahaʻa o nā mea ʻai ʻelua a me nā moe kolohe i ka “mea maoli” a no laila ʻaʻole maikaʻi. Eia nō naʻe, maikaʻi ʻole lākou i ke ʻano like? ʻO ka huaʻōlelo "junk" e pili ana i kahi mea maikaʻi ʻole. He aha ka maikaʻi maikaʻi ʻole i ka moe kolohe? Pono mākou e hōʻalo i ka moekolohe, e like me ka ʻōlelo a mākou e hōʻalo ai i nā meaʻai maikaʻi ʻole?

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