ʻO Lisa Snyder a me nā make o Conner lāua ʻo Brinley

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Ke alo nei ʻo Lisa Snyder kanakolukumamāono ona makahiki i ka hoʻopaʻi no ka make, i hoʻopiʻi ʻia no ka pepehi ʻana i kāna keiki kāne he 8 makahiki, ʻo Conner, a me kāna kaikamahine 4 makahiki, ʻo Brinley, ma ka lā 23 Kepakemapa 2019. Wahi a Lisa, Conner ua kaumaha a huhū hoʻi i ka hana hoʻomāinoino ʻia ma ke kula a pepehi kanaka iā ia iho ma ke kau ʻana iā ia iho i lalo o ko lākou home. Manaʻoʻiʻo ʻo ia ua pepehi ʻo ia i kona kaikuahine, ka mea i ʻike ʻia e kau ana ʻekolu mau kapuaʻi mai ona aku, no ka mea, e like me kāna i haʻi mua aku ai iā ia, makaʻu ʻo ia i ka make hoʻokahi.

ʻO ka make i hāpai koke ʻia ka manaʻo kānalua. "E palekana paha ka ʻōlelo ʻana he nīnau koke kā mākou," i ʻōlelo ʻia e ka Loio Apana ʻo John Adams. Akā hewa ʻo ia.

Ka Hoʻomake i nā Preteens: Pepehi iā 8 mau makahiki iā lākou iho?

ʻOiai he mea maʻamau ʻole, pepehi lākou i nā makahiki 8 mau makahiki. Ma kahi o 33 mau keiki ma waena o 5 a 11 mau makahiki e pepehi iā lākou iho i kēlā me kēia makahiki; ʻo ia ke kolu o ke kumu o ka make no kēia pūʻulu makahiki. Ma Ianuali 26, 2017, no ka laʻana, ua lawe ʻo Gabriel Taye i kona ola ponoʻī ma hope o ke kīkē ʻia ʻana a kuʻi ʻia e kekahi o kāna mau haumāna kula haʻahaʻa ma Cincinnati, Ohio. I ʻelua mau lā ma hope mai, kau ʻo ia iā ia iho me ka lei ʻāʻī mai kona wahi moe.

ʻOiai ʻaʻole e hana nā keiki ʻōpio iā lākou, ʻo nā manaʻo suicidal ʻaʻole ia he mea e maʻalahi. ʻO kekahi mau maʻi - kaumaha, ADHD, nā maʻi ʻai, pilikia kīnā o ke aʻo ʻana, a i ʻole maʻi kūʻē kūʻē - kū i ka makaʻu o nā manaʻo suicidal. Eia naʻe, ʻaʻole paha nā diagnose e hoʻokaʻawale i nā keiki suicidal mai ka poʻe mākua suicidal. ʻO ia ke kumu nui o nā kūlana situational. No nā keiki, alakaʻi pinepine ʻia ka pepehi kanaka e nā ʻano o ke ola - ka hana pono ʻole o ka ʻohana, ka hoʻomāinoino ʻana, a me ka holomua ʻole o ka nohona - ma mua o nā pilikia lōʻihi. I kekahi mau hihia, ʻike ke keiki i kahi pilina koʻikoʻi, ʻano kaumaha loa akā ʻaʻole ʻike i ka pehea e kū ai, a laila hana impulsively e hōʻeha iā lākou iho.

Makemake maoli kēia mau keiki e make? Maopopo ʻole inā noʻonoʻo maoli kekahi i ka ʻeha o ka impulsivity ma o nā hopena o kāna hana. Akā mai kuhihewa, e ka papa ʻekolu, ʻaneʻane maopopo i nā keiki āpau i ka huaʻōlelo "pepehikanaka," a hiki i ka hapa nui ke wehewehe i hoʻokahi a i ʻole mau ala e hana ai. A ʻoiai ʻaʻole lākou e hoʻomaopopo i nā kikoʻī a pau o ka make (e laʻa, manaʻo kekahi mau keiki hiki i nā mea make ke lohe a ʻike a lilo paha i mau ʻuhane), e ka papa mua, maopopo i ka hapa nui o nā keiki he hiki ʻole ke make, ʻo ia hoʻi, ka poʻe i ʻaʻole e ola hou ana ka make.

Hana kolohe paha nā keiki?

No laila, maopopo leʻa pepehi kekahi mau keiki iā lākou iho. Akā, pehea e pili ana i ka pepehi kanaka-pepehi kanaka? Inā manaʻoʻiʻo ʻia ʻo Lisa Snyder, ua pepehi kāna keiki 8 makahiki i kāna kaikuahine 4 makahiki, no ka mea makaʻu ʻo ia e make hoʻokahi. Inā ʻoiaʻiʻo, ʻo kēia, ke manaʻoʻiʻo nei wau, ʻo ia ka mua o kāna ʻano. ʻO ka mea muli loa i hana i ka pepehi kanaka-pepehi kanaka aʻu i ʻike ai he 14 mau makahiki, a e like me ka hapanui (65 pākēneka) pepehi kanaka-pepehi kanaka, ka mea i hoʻomāinoino ʻia he hoapili hoa (ipo wahine).

Minamina, nui nā keiki e make i ka pepehi kanaka-pepehi kanaka, akā ʻo lākou ka poʻe i hōʻino ʻia. Ma mua o 1,300 mau kānaka i make i ka pepehi kanaka-pepehi kanaka ma ʻAmelika ma 2017, ma kahi o 11 i hoʻokahi pule. Kanahākūmālua mau keiki a me nā ʻōpio ma lalo o 18 mau makahiki. ʻO nā mea hana hewa? ʻO nā kāne a me nā wahine makua, nā lālā o ka ʻohana, nā hoa pili i kēia manawa a i ʻole ma mua, nā mākua, a me nā makuakāne. Heluhelu, ʻelua mau manawa a ka nui o nā makuakāne e like me nā māku e hana ai i kahi pepehi kanaka-pepehi kanaka kahi i pepehi ʻia ai kahi keiki, ʻoi aku ka pinepine o nā keiki makua ma mua o nā pēpē, a ma mua o ka pepehi kanaka ʻana, hōʻike ka makua i ka hōʻike o ke kaumaha a psychosis paha. ʻO ia ka mea e hoʻihoʻi iā mākou iā Lisa.

Pehea e pili ana i nā makuahine nāna i luku kā lākou keiki?

I loko o nā makahiki he ʻekolu i hala aku nei, ua hana nā mākua o ʻAmelika Hui Pū ʻIa i ka hana hoʻomāinoino - ka luku ʻia ʻana o kahi keiki ma kahi o 1 mau makahiki - ma kahi o 500 mau manawa i kēlā me kēia makahiki. ʻO nā makuahine nāna i luku i kā lākou keiki e ʻokoʻa i ka makahiki o ke keiki. ʻO kahi laʻana, ʻo nā mākuahine hana neonaticide — ka pepehi kanaka ʻana o kahi keiki ma waena o 24 mau hola o kona hānau ʻia ʻana - he ʻōpio (ma lalo o 25), he wahine male ʻole (80 pākēneka) me nā hāpai keiki makemake ʻole ʻia i loaʻa ʻole ka mālama hānau mua. I ka hoʻohālikelike ʻana i nā makuahine i pepehi i nā keiki ʻoi aku ka liʻiliʻi, ʻaʻole lākou e kaumaha a psychotic paha a hōʻole a hūnā paha i ka hāpai ʻana mai ka hānau ʻana. ʻO Infanticide, ka pepehi kanaka ʻana o kahi keiki ma waena o nā makahiki o 1 lā a me 1 makahiki, ke ʻano nui i waena o nā makuahine i hoʻopilikia ʻia i ka hoʻokele waiwai, kaawale kaiapili, a me nā kahu mālama manawa piha. ʻo ka mea maʻamau, he mea makehewa ka make a me kahi hopena o ka hoʻomāinoino mau ("ʻaʻole ʻo ia e hooki i ka uē ʻana"), a i ʻole ka makuahine e loaʻa ana i kahi maʻi noʻonoʻo nui (depress or psychosis).

I ka pili ʻana i ka pepehi kanaka, ʻo ia hoʻi, ka pepehi kanaka ʻana o nā keiki ma mua o ka makahiki 1, ʻoi aku ka paʻakikī.Hōʻike ka noiʻi ʻelima mau kumu nui e kipaku i ka pepehi kanaka o nā keiki makua: 1) I ka filtrist altruistic, pepehi ka makuahine i kāna keiki, no ka mea, manaʻo ʻo ia ʻo ka make ka mea e pono ai ke keiki (ʻo kahi laʻana, ʻaʻole makemake kahi makuahine suicidal e haʻalele i kāna makuahine ʻole. keiki e alo i kahi honua hiki ʻole ke hoʻomanawanui ʻia); b) i ka filotic psychotic pono, pepehi ka makuahine psychotic a i ʻole delirious i kāna keiki me ka ʻole o kahi kumu i hiki ke hoʻomaopopo ʻia (no ka laʻana, hiki i kahi makuahine ke ukali i nā kauoha hallucined e pepehi); c) ke hiki mai kahi filestic maltreatment fatal, ʻaʻole i hoʻolālā ʻia ka make akā nā hopena mai ka hoʻomāinoino keiki kamaliʻi, mālama ʻole, a i ʻole Munchausen syndrome e ke koho; d) i ka filicide keiki makemake ʻole ʻia, manaʻo ka makuahine i kāna keiki he mea keʻakeʻa; e) ka laha loa, ka hoʻopaʻi hoʻopaʻi hoʻopaʻi male, ke hana ʻia kahi makuahine i kāna keiki e hōʻehaʻeha maoli i ka makua kāne o kē keiki.

ʻOiai hewa ʻole ʻo Lisa Snyder a hiki i ka hōʻoia ʻana o ka hewa, kekahi mau ʻike i kū aʻe e pili ana. Hoʻokahi, i ka makahiki 2014, ua hoʻoneʻe ʻia nā keiki a Lisa Snyder mai ko lākou home e Nā lawelawe pale keiki. Ua hoʻihoʻi ʻia lākou i Pepeluali 2015. ʻElua, ʻo kekahi o nā hoa aloha a Lisa Snyder i haʻi aku i ka mākaʻi he ʻekolu pule ma mua o ka make ʻana o nā keiki, ua haʻi ʻo Lisa iā ia ua kaumaha ʻo ia, ʻaʻole hiki iā ia ke hele i waho o kahi moe, a mālama hou ʻole i kāna keiki. .

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