Nā Pahu Hewa Hewa a me ka Makeke Mālama

ʻO kēia he pule o nā nīnau e pili ana i ka pue wahine. Ua hoʻomaka ʻo Kauka Phil i nā mea āpau e ka nīnau ʻana i kāna poʻe ukali i ko lākou manaʻo no ka moekolohe ʻana me nā kaikamahine ʻona. Ua paipai kēia i nā mea he nui e nīnau he aha (a i ʻole, inā paha) hiki iā ia ke noʻonoʻo i ka wā i koi ai ʻo ia i ka ʻae ʻia o ka moekolohe ʻana me nā wahine ʻona ʻona e hoʻopaʻapaʻa ʻia. Ua alakaʻi kēlā pane iā Tracy Clark-Flory ma Salon e nīnau i kahi nīnau holoʻokoʻa. nā nīnau nui e pili ana i ka pehea e noʻonoʻo ai e pili ana i ka pue wale ʻana, he hapa o lākou i pane ʻole.

He nīnau hoʻi kaʻu e pili ana i ka pue wahine. ʻO kaʻu kahi nīnau e hiki ai, ke manaʻoʻiʻo nei wau, e pane ʻia e kahi mea noiʻi noiʻi i makemake e lawe i ka manawa e nānā a noʻonoʻo i nā hōʻike empirical. No kēia manawa, he nīnau wale nō ia me ka pane ʻole. Akā ʻo ia kaʻu e manaʻo ai he pono e nīnau.

Eia ka nīnau: ʻO ka loiloi i ka hōʻeha i kau ʻia ma luna o ka mea i hōʻino wale ʻia he hana ia o kāna waiwai i ʻike ʻia ma ka mākeke mare (ʻo ia kona waiwai i nā kāne) i ka manawa o ka pue wale?

A i ʻole, he kikoʻī kikoʻī loa, hoʻokolohua hoʻokolohua, kuhiakau: Hoʻoholo nā luna kānāwai i nā ʻōlelo ʻoi aku ka hewa inā ʻo ka mea i loaʻa i ka wahine make wahine i manaʻo ʻia he maikaʻi nā manaʻo mākeke male i ka manawa o ka pue wale ʻana e pili ana i ka mea i manaʻo ʻia he maikaʻi ʻole ka male ʻana. mākeke prospect i ka manawa o ka pue wale.

A, he nīnau nui ia mai ka nānā ʻia ʻana o ka ʻino ma kēia ala, hōʻike ia i ka manaʻoʻiʻo he wahine "i hōʻino ʻia" nā waiwai "- e loiloi nā kāne iā lākou ma ke ʻano he waiwai liʻiliʻi ma ka mākeke no ka male.

Eia nā laʻana ʻehā o kahi aʻu e ʻike ai i ka hiki no ke kūlana o ka wahine ma ka mākeke mare i ka manawa o kona pue wale ʻana i ka wā e noʻonoʻo ana i ka ʻino āna i hoʻomanawanui ai.

Manaʻo nui ʻia he ʻoi aku ka waiwai o nā wahine e hōʻike ana i ka maʻemaʻe ma ka makeke o ka male ma mua o nā wahine ʻaʻole. ʻoi aku ka koi o nā puʻupaʻa a, a ʻo ka hopena, loaʻa ka manawa kūpono e male ma lalo o nā huaʻōlelo ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi ma mua o nā wahine puʻupaʻa ʻole.

ʻO ke kiʻekiʻe kiʻekiʻe o ka maʻa ma nā mākeke male e alakaʻi ai i ka hopena ʻoi aku ka nui o nā mea i hōʻino ʻia ma mua o ka wahine ma mua i ka wahine? A i 'ole, ma nā' ōlelo 'oi aku, ua hana' ino paha nā wahine i loaʻa nā poʻe moekolohe ma mua o nā wahine i nui aʻe?

ʻIke ʻia nā mea hana moekolohe he haʻahaʻa haʻahaʻa ma ka hapa nui o nā mākeke male; haʻahaʻa lākou i ke koi a no laila ke male lākou ua male lākou ma lalo o nā huaʻōlelo maikaʻi ʻole ma mua o nā wahine i nā ʻoihana ʻē aʻe. I ka loiloi ʻana i ka pōʻino mai ka pue wale ʻana, ʻike ʻia ua hana ʻia ka poʻe hana kolohe ma mua o ka hōʻino ʻia ma mua o nā wahine ʻē aʻe i loaʻa, a i ʻole, i hana maikaʻi ʻia ma ka mākeke mare?

E wehewehe paha kēia kumumanaʻo mākeke male i ka hoʻomau mau o ka hōʻino ʻia e ka wahine ma mua o ka hōʻino ʻia e kekahi kāne ʻē inā manaʻo mākou he wahine i hoʻomake ʻia e kāna kāne ʻaʻole e loli ka waiwai i kēlā kāne a ʻo ka wahine i mare ʻia. ka mea i hoʻomāinoino ʻia e kekahi kāne ʻē aʻe e ʻike i ka emi ʻana o ka waiwai i kāna kāne.

ʻImi nā wahine ʻAmelika ʻAmelika i nā mākeke ʻoi aku ka paʻakikī ma mua o nā wahine o nā lāhui ʻē aʻe; emi ka liʻiliʻi o ka male ʻana ma kēlā me kēia manawa o ko lākou ola. ʻO ka manaʻoʻiʻo i loaʻa i ka mea i loaʻa i ka wahine make wahine ʻino ka maikaʻi o ka manaʻolana ma ka mākeke ma ka manawa o ka pue wale, unuhi i loko o kahi loiloi ua ʻike ʻo ia i ka pōʻino ma mua o ka wahine keʻokeʻo e ʻoi aku ka male.

Lana koʻu manaʻo he mea maopopo ia ke hōʻike wau i kēia mau nīnau ʻaʻole wau e ʻōlelo ʻo kēia ke ala a mākou pono e noʻonoʻo e pili ana i ka hōʻino ma muli o ka pue wahine. Ke nīnau nei wau inā ʻaʻole kēia ke ala a mākou hana e noʻonoʻo e pili ana i ka hōʻino. No ka mea inā mākou e hana - inā mākou e kaupaona i ka waiwai o ka wahine ma ka mākeke mare i ka manawa i hoʻopiʻi ʻia ai ia - manaʻo wau e ʻae i kahi kūkākūkā koʻikoʻi e pili ana i ka ʻike kaiāulu o ka waiwai o ka mea hoʻomake wale i ka mākeke male.