Ke kamaʻilio pū nei me nā kamaliʻi e pili ana i ka make

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• Eia kekahi mau nīnau kamaliʻi liʻiliʻi e pili ana i ka make a me kekahi mau pane hāpana:
• Hana nā keiki ʻōpio he nui i ka nalowale ma o kā lākou hana.
• Pehea ke kaumaha o ka makua?
• Kōkua i nā keiki e hoʻomanaʻo.

Huikau wale nā ​​kamaliʻi e ka make a pono i nā wehewehe akāka maoli a make kekahi. He ʻoiaʻiʻo kēia inā make make koke ke kanaka a lākou i ʻike ai, no kahi ulia a i ʻole maʻi i manaʻo ʻia (maʻi ʻaʻai, COVID-19), a i ʻole ʻelemakule. Pono nā mākua a me nā mākua mālama ʻē aʻe e hoʻohana i ka ʻōlelo mōakāka, pololei e wehewehe ai i ka mea i hana ʻia a pane i nā nīnau a nā keiki.

• E haʻi akāka i nā ʻoiaʻiʻo. Ke kuhikuhi pololei nā mākua, ʻike maikaʻi nā keiki. Hiki iā lākou ke hoʻohana i ka ʻōlelo e like me, “maʻi loa ʻo Grammy i loko o kona ake māmā a me kona puʻuwai. Ua pilikia ʻo ia i ka hanu ʻana. Ua hana nā kauka i ka mea hiki e kōkua iā ia e ola, akā ua make ʻo ia, "a i ʻole," Ua make ʻo ʻAnakē Maria. Ua loaʻa iā ia kahi maʻi maʻi i kapa ʻia ʻo COVID-19 (a i ʻole ma kahi ulia kaʻa, a pēlā aku), a ua hele a weluwelu kona kino mai kēlā wā ʻōpio ʻo ia. " E hoʻohana i ka ʻōlelo mōakāka e like me, "Ke make kekahi, no laila ʻaʻole hiki iā lākou ke kamaʻilio a pāʻani paha. ʻAʻole hiki iā kāua ke ʻike iā lākou a apo hou iā lākou. ʻO ka make ʻana ke kumu o ka hana ʻana o ko lākou kino. ”
• E hele mālie a pane i nā nīnau a nā keiki. E ʻike nā mākua e nīnau kekahi mau keiki i kekahi mau nīnau, a ʻaʻole e nīnau kekahi. E hele i ka wikiwiki o ke keiki. Inā hāʻawi ʻia ka ʻike he nui i ka manawa hoʻokahi, hopohopo a huikau paha lākou. Puka mai kekahi mau nīnau a nā keiki i loko o kekahi mau lā a i ʻole he mau pule i ko lākou hoʻāʻo ʻana e hoʻomaopopo i ka mea i hana ʻia.

Eia kekahi mau nīnau kamaliʻi liʻiliʻi e pili ana i ka make a me kekahi mau pane hāpana:

• Aia i hea ʻo Grammy i kēia manawa? Hiki ke huikau a makaʻu paha nā kamaliʻi e nā ʻōlelo maopopo ʻole e like me, "Ua hele ʻo Grammy i kahi ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi," a i ʻole "ua hala ʻo ʻAnakē Maria." Manaʻo paha kekahi keiki ʻōpio aia maoli ke kanaka ma kahi ʻē a huikau paha e ka huaʻōlelo "hala." I kekahi manawa ua wehewehe ʻia ka make ma ke ʻano "hoʻi i ka home" a i ʻole "hiamoe mau loa." E hoʻomaka paha nā kamaliʻi e makaʻu i nā hana maʻamau, e like me ka hoʻi ʻana i ka home ma hope o ka puka ʻana a i ʻole hiamoe ʻana. Ma kahi o, hiki i nā mākua ke hāʻawi i kahi wehewehe maʻalahi, kūpono i ka makahiki e hōʻike ana i ko lākou mau manaʻo pilikino.
• E make paha ʻoe? ʻIke i kēia makaʻu, akā hāʻawi i ka hōʻoia. E ʻōlelo paha nā mea mālama, "hiki iaʻu ke ʻike i ke kumu o kou hopohopo e pili ana i kēlā, akā ikaika wau a olakino hoʻi. E hiki ana au i ʻaneʻi e mālama iā ʻoe no kekahi manawa lōʻihi loa. ” Inā make koke kekahi mea ʻōpio a pili loa paha me ke keiki, ʻoi aku paha ka lōʻihi o ka hana ʻana ma waena o ka makaʻu a me ka hopohopo. E hoʻomanawanui. He maikaʻi no nā mākua e hōʻoia he paʻakikī e hoʻomaopopo i ke kumu o nā mea maikaʻi ʻole e kū mai.
• E make paha wau? Loaʻa i ka virus? Loaʻa kahi ulia kaʻa? Hiki i nā keiki ke hoʻomanaʻo ʻia i nā mea āpau a lākou e hana ai e olakino a palekana. E ʻōlelo paha nā mākua, "Ke holoi nei mākou i ko mākou mau lima, me ka ʻaʻa ʻana i nā masks i ka lehulehu, a me ka noho mau ʻana i ka home i kēia manawa no ka hōʻalo ʻana i ka coronavirus. ʻAi maikaʻi mākou, hiamoe pono, a hele i ke kauka e kōkua iā mākou e noho olakino a ola no ka manawa lōʻihi. ” A i ʻole, "Hoʻokomo mākou i nā beliki i loko o ke kaʻa a ukali i nā lula o ke ala e pale ai i nā pōpilikia i ka hiki iā mākou."
• Make anei kēlā me kēia kanaka? ʻOiai paʻakikī, hana maikaʻi nā mākua ma ka haʻi ʻana i ka ʻoiaʻiʻo me ka ʻōlelo ʻana, “Ma ka hopena, make nā mea āpau. Make ka hapa nui o ka poʻe i ka wā elemakule e like me Grammy. ” A i ʻole, “I kekahi manawa kū nā mea weliweli, a kaumaha loa a makaʻu hoʻi ke make make ʻole nā ​​kānaka. Maikaʻi ke makaʻu a kaumaha hoʻi. Ma ʻaneʻi wau me ʻoe. ”
• Hiki iaʻu ke make i hiki iaʻu ke noho me Grammy / ʻAnakē Maria? Hele mai kēia nīnau mai kahi e nalo ana i kā lākou mea aloha. ʻAʻole ia he manaʻo makemake ke keiki e make. Noho mālie a ʻōlelo, "Maopopo iaʻu makemake ʻoe e noho pū me Grammy / ʻAnakē Maria. Haʻo pū wau iā ia. Ke make kekahi, ʻaʻole hiki iā lākou ke pāʻani me nā poloka, a ʻai paha i ka ʻaikalima, a i ʻole e hele hou i ka ʻūlili. Makemake ʻo ia e hana i kēlā mau mea āpau, a ʻo wau kekahi kekahi. ”
• He aha ka mea e make ana? ʻAʻole hiki i nā keiki ʻōpio ke hoʻomaopopo piha i ka make. Ke hakakā nei nā mākua makua me kēlā! Hiki ke kōkua i ka hāʻawi ʻana i kahi wehewehe maʻalahi, paʻa. ʻ Saylelo, “Ua oki ka hana ʻana o ke kino o ʻAnakē Maria. ʻAʻole hiki iā ia ke ʻai, a pāʻani paha, a neʻe hou i kona kino. "

Hana nā keiki ʻōpio he nui i ka nalowale ma o kā lākou hana.

ʻOiai inā ʻaʻole maopopo maopopo i nā keiki i ka make, maopopo iā lākou ua hana ʻia kahi mea hohonu a paʻa loa - i ka ʻōpio o 3 mau mahina! He huhū nui paha ko nā kamaliʻi a paʻa loa paha. Hōʻike paha lākou i nā loli i ke ʻano o ka hiamoe a me nā ʻano holoi pono. Kūlohelohe kēia mau loli a emi i ka manawa ke pane ka poʻe mālama me ka ʻoluʻolu, ahonui, a me kekahi aloha keu a me ka nānā.

Hoʻomaopopo paha nā mākua i nā kamaliʻi e pāʻani ana i nā pāʻani "make". Hoʻohālikelike kekahi mau keiki i kahi pāʻani kahi maʻi a mea holoholona ukuhi paha i maʻi a ʻeha a ʻeha a "make" paha paha me ka ikaika. Pono e hōʻoia i nā mākua he mea maʻamau kēia. Hōʻike nā keiki iā mākou ma o kā lākou pāʻani ʻana i ka mea a lākou e noʻonoʻo nei a hopohopo nei. E noʻonoʻo e hoʻohui i kahi pahu kauka a ambulance paha i nā koho pāʻani a ke keiki. Hiki i nā mākua ke hui pū i ka hana keaka a ke keiki inā lākou e ʻae e alakaʻi i ka pāʻani. Ma hope o ka manawa, e mae ana kēia nānā.

Makemake nā keiki ʻōpio e nīnau i nā nīnau like ma mua a ma mua. He paʻakikī paha i nā mākua ke hoʻomau i ka pane ʻana i nā nīnau like e pili ana i ka make ʻana o kahi mea aloha. Akā he ala nui kēia na nā kamaliʻi e hoʻopaʻa i ka mea i hana ʻia. E aʻo nā keiki ʻōpio ma o ka hana hou ʻana, no laila ʻo ka lohe ʻana i nā kikoʻī like ma mua a ma hope e kōkua iā lākou e ʻike i ka ʻike.

Pehea ke kaumaha o ka makua?

Mahalo paha nā mākua inā maikaʻi ke kaniʻuhū a uē i mua o kā lākou keiki, a aia paha he mau mea moʻomeheu inā ʻoluʻolu kēlā. Inā emote i mua o kā lākou keiki, he mea nui na lākou e wehewehe. ʻ saylelo paha lākou, “Ke uē nei au, no ka mea kaumaha au i ka make ʻana o Grammy / ʻAnakē Maria. Haʻo wau iā ia. ”

Hoʻomaopopo paha nā mākua i ka noʻonoʻo pilikino o nā keiki ʻōpio a pono e haʻi pololei ʻia ʻaʻole hewa kekahi o kēia. He mea nui paha kēia i ka wā o ka maʻi maʻi COVID-19, no ka mea ua haʻi ʻia nā keiki ʻaʻole hiki iā lākou ke ʻike i ko lākou mau hoaaloha a i ʻole nā ​​kūpuna. (Hiki i nā ʻōpio makua ke ʻohi i nā ʻāpana a me nā ʻikepili e pili ana i ka make a hewa hewa. E hoʻāʻo e wehewehe i ka "vector" i kahi makahiki he 3!) Inā lilo ka kaumaha o ka makua i ka nui, paipai iā lākou e kiʻi i ke kākoʻo. Inā ikaika, kūmau, kaumaha ke keiki, hoʻopilikia i kā lākou pāʻani a aʻo ʻana, a i ʻole pā paha i kā lākou ʻano maʻamau, pono paha lākou i kākoʻo.

Kōkua i nā keiki e hoʻomanaʻo.

Pono nā mākua e kamaʻilio a hoʻomanaʻo e pili ana i kā lākou hoaaloha a ʻohana paha me kā lākou keiki. Hiki iā lākou ke kahakaha i nā mea hoʻomanaʻo o nā mea aloha i nā ʻano like ʻole. E ʻōlelo paha lākou, “E hana kākou i nā muffins punahele a Grammy i kēia kakahiaka. Hiki iā mākou ke hoʻomanaʻo iā ia ke hoʻomoʻa pū. " A i ʻole, "aloha mau ʻo ʻAnakē Maria i ka tulip; e kanu kākou i kahi tulipe a hoʻomanaʻo iā ia i kēlā me kēia manawa ke ʻike mākou i ka tulip. ”

Ua hāʻawi ʻo Sarah MacLaughlin, LSW, a me Rebecca Parlakian, M.Ed. i kēia kūlana. He limahana limahana ʻo Sarah, kumu aʻo makua, a me ka mea kākau o ka puke lanakila, lanakila maikaʻi loa, He aha e ʻōlelo ʻole ai: Nā mea hana no ke kamaʻilio pū ʻana me nā keiki ʻōpio . ʻO Rebeka ʻo ZERO NO ʻekolu mau luna nui o nā papahana a hoʻomohala i nā kumuwaiwai no nā mākua, me ka hoʻomaʻamaʻa ʻana i nā mākua a me nā ʻoihana kamaliʻi.