He aha nā hoʻololi i ka lolo i ka wā makuahine?

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• He aha kā mākou e ʻike ai e pili ana i nā loli i ka lolo o ka wahine i ka wā o ka hānau ʻana?
• Hoʻololi i ka lolo o ka wahine i ka wā hānau keiki
• "Boom hormonal"
• ʻO ka mea nui o ka nucleus accumbens: he aha ka ʻepekema e ʻōlelo ai?
• Pahuhopu: ola o ka pēpē
• "Kāpena" pēpē (infatuation)
• Hoemi ʻia nā nucleus accumbens
• Hoʻopilikia kūpono?
• Hapai kūlohelohe, i ka vitro a me ka hānai
• Nā kūmole puke moʻolelo:

He aha kā mākou e ʻike ai e pili ana i nā loli i ka lolo o ka wahine i ka wā o ka hānau ʻana?

Ua noʻonoʻo paha ʻoe i nā loli i ka lolo i ka wā makuahine? Ua hāʻawi ka ʻepekema i kahi pane i kēia nīnau, a hōʻike nā noiʻi hou e pili ana nā loli i nā lolo wahine i kēia wā ola.

Akā he aha nā ʻano loli e hana ʻia, ma ka hapanui? He aha nā hanana lolo e pili ana? He aha ka hopena o kēia mau hoʻololi i ka hana a ka makuahine? ʻO ka hope, hana like ka mea like i nā makuahine e hāpai kūlohelohe, e like me nā makuahine i hele i ka IVF a i ʻole nā ​​makuahine i hānai? I kēia ʻatikala e hoʻoponopono mākou i kēia mau nīnau āpau.

Hoʻololi i ka lolo o ka wahine i ka wā hānau keiki

Aia nā hoʻololi i ka lolo i ka wā o ka hānau ʻana ma kahi ʻano o ka lolo i kapa ʻia ʻo ka nucleus accumbens. ʻO ka nucleus accumbens ka kahi ʻāpana primitive loa o ka lolo, e pili ana i ka loaʻa ʻana o ka leʻaleʻa, leʻaleʻa, a me ka uku.

Hoʻoulu i kā mākou kumu hoʻoikaika a ʻae i kā mākou makemake e alakaʻi i kā mākou hana. Pili pū ia i ke aʻo ʻana, ka hoʻomanaʻo, ka makaʻu, ka huhū, nā ʻāpiki, ka ʻakaʻaka ... a me nā pono nui a me nā pono mua e like me ka moekolohe a me ka ʻai ʻana i ka meaʻai. Ma hope e kamaʻilio hou mākou e pili ana i kēia ʻano a me kona pilina i nā loli i ka lolo i ka wā makuahine.

"Boom hormonal"

Nā loli i hōʻike ʻia aʻe nei ʻike ʻia ma ke ʻano he hopena o ka neʻe hormonal nui i kū i ka wā hāpai, a he hopena pololei hoʻi e "aloha aloha" nā makuahine me kā lākou keiki.

ʻO kēia neʻe ʻana o ka hormonal, a ʻo ia hoʻi kahi synthesese nui o nā hormoni like ʻole, ikaika loa a kiki ʻole; i ka ʻoiaʻiʻo, manaʻo nui ʻia ia ʻoi aku ka nui ma mua o ka loli hormonal e kū nei ma loko o ke ola momona o ka wahine.

Hana ʻia kēia mau hoʻololi i ka mesolimbic-dopaminergic ʻōnaehana o ka lolo, kahi e hana ai ka dopamine ma ke ʻano he neurotransmitter a me kahi hormone. Pili ʻo Dopamine i nā ʻano ʻoluʻolu, i ke kaohi o ka hoʻoikaika, i ka makemake a me ka hana hou ʻana i kekahi mau ʻano hana (ʻo ia hoʻi nā mea e hoʻoikaika nei no mākou).

No laila, kuhikuhi ka ʻepekema i ka wā o ka hāpai ʻana aia kahi hoʻololi o ka hana o ka nucleus accumbens, e like me kā mākou i ʻike ai, kahi hanana pili loa i ka loaʻa ʻana o ka leʻaleʻa a me ka hoʻoikaika ʻana, i kēia hihia mai ka makuahine. ʻO kēia hana, pili, pili i ka hana mua a me ka instinctive a ka makuahine i kāna pēpē, i kuhikuhi ʻia mālama, pale a hāpai ʻana i kona ola.

ʻO ka mea nui o ka nucleus accumbens: he aha ka ʻepekema e ʻōlelo ai?

Ua ʻike mākou i ke ʻano o ka nucleus accumbens kahi hanana lolo e pili ana i nā ʻano manaʻo kanaka, nā pono a me nā manaʻo; ke aʻo ʻana, leʻaleʻa, hoʻoikaika, makaʻu ...

E pili ana iā ia a me nā loli i ka lolo i ka wā o ka hānau makuahine, ua mālama ʻia kahi hoʻokolokolo ma ka Lapaʻau Hoʻokolohua Hoʻokolohua o ka Haukapila Gregorio Marañón ma Madrid a me ka Ciber de Salud Mental (CiberSAM), e ka hui i alakaʻi ʻia e ka mea noiʻi ʻo Susana Carmona a me ka ka laulima ʻana o ke Kulanui Autonomous o Barcelona (UAB), kuhikuhi ia ke hoʻololi nei ka nucleus accumbens i nā loli nui i kona nui i ka wā hāpai. Kūpono, hoʻemi ʻia kāna leo.

Hōʻike ka noiʻi e pili pololei kēia mau hoʻololi i ka lawena makuahine maʻamau. Hiki ke nīnau ʻia kēia noiʻi ʻana ma ka puke pai "Psychoneuroendocrinology" (Pepeluali 2020).

Pahuhopu: ola o ka pēpē

E like me kā mākou e ʻike ai, ʻo nā loli i ka lolo i ka wā o ka makuahine ma muli o ka "hormonal boom" i ʻōlelo ʻia aʻe nei, kahi e hoʻopili ai i ka ʻōnaehana mesolimbic-dopaminergic o ka lolo, ʻo ia hoʻi, a me nā wahi ʻelua ʻē aʻe o ia. Hoʻonohonoho kēia mau hoʻololi i ka hana a ka makuahine e hele a kokoke wale i kāna pēpē (kona hoʻomohala a me ke ola ʻana, nā mea nui).

"Kāpena" pēpē (infatuation)

ʻO nā loli i ka lolo i ka wā o ka makuahine e noʻonoʻo iā mākou i kahi "ʻona" maoli i ka pēpē, ma ka ʻaoʻao o ka makuahine, mai ʻo ka hapa nui o nā wahi lolo e hana pēlā i ke alo o kahi mea hōʻalo e hoʻoheheʻe ʻia (e laʻa me ka moekolohe, ka waiʻona, ka puhi ...).

Hoʻohui ʻia, i ke alo o kahi mea hōʻalo, hoʻohui ʻia nā kūkulu āpau a me nā ʻōnaehana lolo ʻokoʻa i mea e loaʻa ai i ka mea i ka hoʻoikaika a me / a i ʻole ka hoʻoikaika a lākou e makemake nui ai.

Akā, he aha ka mea a kēia "hōʻalo" i unuhi ai, i ka pae o ka lolo? I loko o kahi noiʻi i hoʻomohala ʻia e ka Valencian Infertility Institute (IVI) o Barcelona, ​​i hana ʻia me 25 mau wahine (nā makuahine mua) a me 20 mau wahine kaohi (ʻaʻole he mau makuahine), ua ʻike ʻia kahi emi ʻana o ka nui o nā nucleus accumbens. , ma o nā ʻenehana o ke kiʻina resonance kiʻi (MRI). ʻO ka hōʻemi o ka nui o kēia ʻano e pili ana i ka mea i ʻōlelo ʻia.

Hoemi ʻia nā nucleus accumbens

Nā hopena o kēia noi, i kūlike me nā hopena i loaʻa i ka hui like ʻekolu mau makahiki i hala, ma 2017, ma o kahi noi i paʻi ʻia i ʻO Neuroscience Kūlohelohe , hōʻike i kēlā ʻo ka hōʻemi a me nā loli o ka nucleus accumbens e ʻae i ka pēpē e lilo i mea hoʻonāukiuki, ʻoluʻolu a pili pono hoʻi no ka makuahine.

Ma ka huli ʻana, hoʻololi kēia mea i ka hana a ka makuahine a kuhikuhi ʻia ʻo ia e pale, mālama a aloha i kāna pēpē. ʻO ia ʻano hana, kūpono, ʻaʻole e hōʻike ʻia "e lākou iho" i ka wahine i lilo ʻole i makuahine.

Hoʻopilikia kūpono?

Ua ʻike mākou i ke komo ʻana o kahi mea hōʻalo a i ʻole "infatuation" me ka pēpē i nā loli i ka lolo i ka wā o ka makuahine, ka mea i kumu e hoʻokuʻu ʻia kahi ʻano o nā hana instinctive i loko o ka makuahine, no ka hāpai ʻana i kona kūpaʻa a me kona ola (o ka pēpē) .

I ka laina me kēia mau mea āpau, ʻike mākou i kahi manaʻo hoihoi loa mai ka psychologist ʻo Urie Bronfenbrenner, nāna i ʻōlelo i kēlā no kahi pēpē e hoʻomohala pono, pono ma ka liʻiliʻi hoʻokahi makua aloha i ke aloha me ia.

Hapai kūlohelohe, i ka vitro a me ka hānai

ʻO kahi nīnau e ala aʻe e pili ana i nā loli i ka lolo i ka wā o ka makuahine ka mea penei: hana kēia i nā "ʻano" a pau o nā makuahine? I nā huaʻōlelo ʻē aʻe, i nā makuahine e hāpai kūlohelohe, i nā makuahine i loaʻa i ka fertilization vitro ... ʻae, ʻae ka pane, iā lākou āpau.

Ma ka ʻaoʻao ʻē aʻe, i nā mākua e ʻae, kēia infatuation a i ʻole "hōʻalo" a mākou i kamaʻilio ai e hiki mai ana, ʻoiai ʻaʻole like nā ʻano hormonal i ka hana like, kūpono. ʻAʻole hoʻi e loli ka lolo, ka mea ʻole e kū. I nā hihia lawe hānai, a laila, komo nā mea hou o ke ʻano kaiaulu a me ka pilina me ka pēpē.

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