Ke aʻo nei kā mākou ʻīlio hou iā mākou e pili ana i ke ola

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• ʻO ko mākou nāwaliwali kanaka
• He wehewehe maikaʻi
• ʻO ka wehewehe kūpono

ʻO kēia nā haʻawina hope loa a kā mākou ʻīlio hou a Emma i aʻo mai ai iā mākou mai kona hui ʻana me ko mākou ʻohana ma Nowemapa 3, 2020. No ka hapa nui, ua hoʻoulu ʻia kēia mau haʻawina e ka mea a mākou i ʻike ai e hana ana i kona hopena o ka leash, no laila ʻlelo. Akā pili maoli lākou i ke ola i kā mākou hopena ma mua o kāna. Ma mua o ka hoʻopau ʻana i kēia moʻo ʻelima hapa Emma ma The Animal Animal, no laila, makemake wau e ʻōlelo i kekahi mau mea e pili ana i ke kanaka.

ʻO ko mākou nāwaliwali kanaka

E alo ia, noʻonoʻo mākou nā kānaka hiki iā mākou ke hana e like me ke Akua. ʻAʻole wale mākou e pāʻani me ke ahi, akā e hoʻāʻo nō hoʻi e kūlou i ka ʻoiaʻiʻo e kūlike ʻole i nā mea wale nō e pono ai, akā i kā mākou makemake pū kekahi. I kekahi manawa hiki iā mākou ke pakele me kēia, akā ʻaʻole mau.

E like me kā ka mea haku mele ʻo Alexander Pope i kaulana kaulana ai i ka hoʻomaka ʻana o ke kenekulia ʻumikūmāwalu: He mea weliweli kahi aʻo liʻiliʻi. Hōʻike ka mōʻaukala he maʻalahi no mākou o nā kānaka ke manaʻo he ʻike nui mākou ma mua o kā mākou maoli.

ʻO kēia ke kumu nui e paʻa ai koʻu manaʻo i ko Emma Haʻawina no. ʻO 4 e pili ana i ke ola ka mea paʻakikī loa. ʻIke wau he paʻakikī ia no ka hapanui o mākou - makemake wau e hele i kahi lālā a ʻōlelo i ka hapa nui o mākou - e ʻae i kēlā ʻaʻole paha ka wehewehe maikaʻi i ka wehewehe ʻana .

He wehewehe maikaʻi

ʻO kahi ʻano koʻikoʻi a maopopo leʻa i hoʻoilina ʻia i ke kanaka ka hiki iā mākou ke hoʻokuʻi iā 2 + 2 a piʻi pū me 4. He poʻokela mākou, i ka ʻoiaʻiʻo, i ke kūkulu ʻana i nā hoʻopaʻapaʻa ma waho o ka lole āpau a i ʻole ke hāʻawi ʻia i nā kuhi a me nā ʻāpana like ʻole o ka nā hōʻike hiki. Kapa aku nā akeakamai a me nā mea hoʻoponopono i kēia ʻano hana o ka lolo "behaviing rationalally." Eia naʻe, ʻo ka ʻoiaʻiʻo, aia kēia ʻano like ma ka puʻuwai o ka mea i kapa ʻia ʻo "rationalizing," "e hana ana i nā mea," "excuse," "wishful wish," "talitonu," a mai poina iā mākou i ke ʻano kipi o ka kipi. kumumanaʻo.

Ma hope koke iho o ko Emma hiki ʻana i Nowemapa i hala, ua hoʻomaka mākou e ʻike he pono mākou e nīnau, a haʻalele loa, ka hapa nui o nā mea a mākou i lohe ai a heluhelu ai paha e pili ana i nā ʻīlio e like me ia. Akā ua maopopo iā mākou ke aʻo nei mākou i nā mea i manaʻo ʻole ʻia e pili wale ana e pili ana i ka American Pit Bull Terriers, akā e pili ana i nā ʻīlio āpau.

1. Inā makemake ʻoe e kamaʻilio e pili ana i ka hana a nā ʻīlio, keu hoʻi inā makemake ʻoe e koi i kā lākou hana ʻaʻole wale no ka mea ʻo lākou hikihana ia, akā no ka mea "aia i loko o kā lākou genes," a laila pono ʻoe e kikoʻī a me ka honua e pili ana i ke ʻano o ka lawena āu e noʻonoʻo ai. ʻAʻole ʻoe e hele ma kahi me nā "ʻano" i kapa ʻia ma ke ʻano he "ʻoluʻolu," "hakakā," "ʻano maikaʻi," a "akamai."
2. ʻ Saylelo ʻia pēlā i kēia manawa no ka loaʻa ākea o nā ʻenehana manaʻo lolo o kēia ao e like me fMRI (kiʻi magnetic resonance imaging), akā mai hana hewa i ka lele ʻana i ka hopena ʻo ka mea a nā ʻīlio e hana nei he "kumu" ia na kekahi mea. paʻa pono i loko o ko lākou lolo. ʻO ka mea aʻu e kapa aku ai he "blaming utak" paha he mea makemake nui ʻia, akā ʻo ka hilinaʻi ʻana i kahi mea a kahi ʻīlio e hana ai (a i ʻole ke kanaka, no ia mea) ua hoʻoilina a hoʻoilina ʻia i ka lolo ʻaʻole paha ia ka wehewehe kūpono. A hiki i ka hōʻoia ʻana pēlā, ʻaʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke kāpae i ka wehewehe ʻana ma ke ʻano he hihia holomua wale nō ia o "rationalizing," "wishful wish," "making up up," "excuse," and the list goes.
3. Ma muli wale nō o kou manaʻo ua kau pololei ʻoe i 2 + 2 - e ʻōlelo maʻalahi i kēia - ʻaʻole ia he manaʻo ua ʻike pū ʻoe no ke aha maihoʻohui lākou a hiki i ka 4. ʻOiai ke ʻano o kahi ʻano ʻīlio kikoʻī e hana i kekahi mea - hānai hipa, e ʻōlelo - pinepine aʻe ma mua o nā laha ʻē aʻe, pono ʻoe e haʻi i ke kumu āu e manaʻoʻiʻo nei ʻaʻole hiki i nā lāhui ʻē aʻe ke hana like ma ka hana like inā paipai ʻia ("hoʻomaʻamaʻa") e hana pēlā.
4. ʻAʻole pono mākou i nā ʻano ʻīlio 360+ i kēia manawa i ʻike ʻia a i ʻole ʻae ʻia e kēia a i ʻole ka ʻoihana kēpau canine ma waho o ka honua e hoʻāʻo nei e mālama iā lākou āpau. ʻO ka hapa nui o kēia mau ʻano, no ka hōʻike wale nō. ʻAneʻane nā mea āpau e hiki iā lākou ke hana, no laila, e maʻalahi i nā ʻīlio e hiki ke hana ma ke ʻano he lāhui Canis lupus familiaris. ʻO ka hoʻāʻo ʻana e kī iho i nā ʻano hana kūlike ʻole no kēlā me kēia a me kēia ʻano puana aloha he mea lapuwale ia.

ʻO ka wehewehe kūpono

Ua hōʻike pinepine ʻo Emma iā mākou i nā manawa pinepine a mākou e noʻonoʻo ai e pili ana i nā ʻīlio e hoʻoholo ʻia e nā mea ʻelua: (1) ke ʻano o ko lākou ʻano, a (2) nā mea a mākou i heluhelu ai ai lohe ai mai nā poʻe ʻē aʻe e pili ana iā lākou. ʻAʻole wale ia e pili ana i nā ʻīlio e hoʻohuli ai mākou e noʻonoʻo e pili ana i nā mea i kahi ʻano cavalier. Hāʻawi ʻia mākou i ka hoʻokolokolo ʻana i ko mākou hoa kanaka a me ke ʻano o kā lākou hana me ka mālama ʻole.

I loko o Pit Bull: Ke Kaua ma luna o kahi ikona ʻAmelika , Ua hoʻomaopopo ʻo Bronwen Dickey "pehea mākou e noʻonoʻo ai e pili ana i ka laha a pehea mākou e noʻonoʻo ai i ka lāhui e hoʻomaopopo kekahi i kekahi, ʻoiai ʻaʻole paha mākou e ʻike pinepine iā ia" (ʻaoʻao 56). Iā ia e hoʻohui, ka huaʻōlelo "lāhui" loa mai ka honua o nā ʻīlio a me nā hānau ʻīlio. I nā wā medieval a no nā kenekulia ma hope, haʻi mai ka mōʻaukala iā mākou i nā mea i kapa ʻia i kēia manawa he "ʻano" i kapa ʻia he "lāhui."

Pēlā nō, e maʻalahi hoʻi ke kuhi he mea e pili ana i ke ola i kēia lā - a me ko mākou hilinaʻi nui ʻana i ka pāpaho kaiaulu no kā mākou nūhou & manaʻo - e like me ka hoʻokalakupua, ke hana nei i nā manaʻo kipi i mea hoʻoweliweli nui i ka nohona kanaka a me ka noho pū ʻana. ʻAʻole pēlā!

Ua kākau pono ʻo Dickey i ke ʻano o ka hoʻowalewale ʻana i nā bipi kauō e like me nā ʻīlio diabolō a me nā mea ola weliweli ʻaʻole ka manawa mua a hoʻokahi wale nō a ka poʻe i huli kūʻē ai i nā holoholona no nā kumu lapuwale a hewa ʻole hoʻi. Ua hana pinepine ʻia kēia ma o ka mōʻaukala. I nā makahiki 1690, no ka laʻana:

Ua pepehi nā kamaʻāina Puritan i nā ʻīlio he nui e make no ka hana ʻana ma ke ʻano he "familiars" (nā ʻāpana diabolical) o nā hoʻokalakupua i manaʻo ʻia. Ua kī ʻia kekahi a make i ka makahiki 1692 ma hope o ka ʻōlelo a kekahi kaikamahine ʻōpio ua "kilokilo" ʻo ia iā ia. I ka wā i make ai ka ʻīlio (ma mua o ka hana ʻana i kekahi mea kupanaha), ua haʻi aku ke kuhina Puritan ʻo Cotton Mather i ka hala ʻole a kala aku iā ia ma hope o ka ʻīlio-ʻaʻole ia he maikaʻi o ka ʻīlio. (147-148).

ʻAʻole wau i manaʻo he mea kūpono ke koi ʻana i ke kipi a me nā kipi kipi - eia nō naʻe ke ʻano o kā mākou laha i hiki ʻole ai i kēia mau hemahema. Ma kahi o, inā ʻoe i noi mai iaʻu e hoʻolapalapa i nā haʻawina a Emma e aʻo mai nei iā mākou e pili ana i ke ola i loko o kahi leka uila home hoʻokahi, ʻo kēia homily:

Ke kūleʻa loa ʻoe, ʻike pono ʻoe i ka pono, ʻoi aku ka hewa ma mua o ka hewa.