He aha ka ʻokoʻa ma waena o ka huāhuā a me ka lili?

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ʻO ka ʻike maʻamau hiki i ka lili ke ala aʻe i ka pōʻaiapili o nā aloha aloha. Akā ʻo ka lili kekahi i loko o nā aloha a me nā pilina ʻohana? A he lili paha kēlā?

ʻO ka pane pōkole hiki i ka lili a me ka lili ke hana i nā ʻano pilina like ʻole a ma waho hoʻi o kahi pilina.

Pili loa ka lili i ka inaina. Ke lili ʻoe i kekahi, huhū ʻoe iā lākou no kahi ʻona a loaʻa paha iā lākou kahi keu a lākou e makemake ai. Inā ʻoe e lili i kou kaikaina no kāna nohona waiwai — kahi nohona āu e moemoeā mau ai - huhū ʻoe iā ia no kona nohona waiwai, a ʻoiai ʻo ka huhū e pili ana i ke kuleana o ka kuleana a me ka ʻāhewa, lawe hewa ʻole ʻoe i kou kaikaina e kuleana nona. ka mahele kaulike ole ana i na waiwai.

Hōʻike ka lili i ka ʻenemi ʻike iā ia iho ma ke ʻano he kūpono o ka pono a i ʻole ke kuleana e like me ka mea i lili ʻia. ʻO kahi laʻana, inā lili ʻoe i kou kaikaina no kona nohona affluent, manaʻo ʻoe he pono ia ma ka liʻiliʻi e like me ia.

ʻO kēia hiʻohiʻona hoʻohālikelike o ka lili i kekahi manawa i ʻōlelo ʻia e hoʻokumu ʻia i ka ʻike o ka ʻenemi i ka like ma waena o lākou a me ka mea lili. Aia kekahi manaʻo he ʻoiaʻiʻo kēlā. ʻOi aku paha ʻoe i ka lili i kahi kaikaina e alakaʻi i kahi ola waiwai ma mua o ka lili ʻana i kahi malihini no ka noho ʻana i kahi nohona like.

Eia nō naʻe inā maʻalahi mākou i ka lili i ka poʻe a mākou e manaʻo like ai, ʻaʻole pili kēia ʻaʻole mākou i lili i nā malihini. Makemake mākou e lili i nā mea kaulana a me ke kūleʻa keu, waiwai, nani, a kanaka akamai paha. E ʻike paha ʻoe i ka leʻaleʻa i ka hāʻule ʻana ma mua o ka lili iā lākou. ʻO kēia manaʻo leʻaleʻa i ka pane ʻana i ka pōʻino o kekahi kanaka i ʻike ʻia ʻo schadenfreude.

ʻOiai, e like me ka mea akeakamai ʻo Sara Protasi i kuhikuhi ai, hiki i ka lili ke hiki a hiki ʻole ke kiʻi ʻia ka ʻenemi i ka waiwai lili a i ʻole ka pono. Inā laʻa, ʻaʻohe hānai ʻoe, lili paha ʻoe i kāu hoa aloha ponoʻī kāna mau keiki ola ponoʻī, ʻoiai ʻaʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke kiʻi i ka hiki ma hope o ka maikaʻi lili.

Hoʻomaopopo ka poʻe ʻatikala i kekahi manawa ma waena o ka lili maikaʻi a kolohe. ʻO ka lili Benign e ʻōlelo ʻia e kia ana i ka hemahema i ʻike ʻia o ka ʻenemi, akā ʻo ka lili huhū e pili ana i ka pono o ka lili.

ʻAʻole like me ka lili huhū, manaʻo nui ʻia ka lili maikaʻi ʻole, no ka mea hoʻonāukiuki i ka mea ʻenemi e hana i nā ala e hiki ai i kahi i lili ʻia. Eia naʻe, ʻo ka manaʻo hoʻohālikelike e hiki ke hoʻonāukiuki iā mākou e hana ʻoi aku ka mea he mamao loa ia mai ka lili i kāna ʻano distill. Akā, ʻo ka manaʻo i mahalo nui ʻia e kapa ʻia kekahi "lili lili" e like me ka hoʻokūkū a me ka ikaika ʻole.

ʻO ka lili ka aneane hiki ʻole ke pale ʻia e hōʻailona i ka ʻokoʻa loa ma waena o ka lili a me ka lili.

I ka ʻōlelo maʻamau, hoʻohana mau ʻia ka “lili” me ka manaʻo lili. Akā he ʻokoʻa ko lākou naʻau. ʻOiai he lili ka lili i kekahi mea pono ʻole a kuleana ʻē aʻe paha o kekahi, ʻo ka lili ka hopena o ka hoʻoweliweli i ka nalo ʻana o kekahi āu e "loaʻa" i kekahi ʻano - he kanaka maʻamau ia me ʻoe kahi pilina kūikawā - i ka ʻaoʻao ʻekolu.

ʻO wai ka mea e kuhikuhi pono i kā mākou lili i ka hoʻopaʻapaʻa. Hoʻokahi koho ke kuhi ʻia ka lili i ka poʻe a mākou e lawe ai i kuleana kūpono no ka hoʻolauna ʻana i ka hoʻoweliweli o ka lilo i kou ola. Inā, e ʻōlelo, ʻike ʻoe i kahi pili malū o kāu hoa aloha lōʻihi i nā makahiki ʻelua i hala, e kuhikuhi ʻia paha kou lili i nā ʻaoʻao ʻelua. Akā kuhi paha, e lawe paha mākou i ko mākou lili i kā mākou hoa ma mua o kāna ipo, ʻoiai hiki i kēia ke hōʻike i kahi manawa kūpono e hōʻike i ko mākou lili i kā mākou hoa ma mua o kāna ipo.

ʻAʻohe paʻakikī ka lili i ka naʻau noʻonoʻo. ʻO kēia no ka mea ʻaʻole hewa ka pahuhopu ka lili no ka loaʻa ʻana o ka mea a ka ʻenemi e makemake ai. ʻO ka lili kekahi ʻano huhū kuhi hewa. Akā hiki ke noʻonoʻo pono i nā manawa maʻamau kahi a ka mea lili e kuleana ai no ka loaʻa ʻana iā ʻoe a i ʻole ke keu pono āu e makemake ai. Inā lili ʻoe i kāu hoa hana no ka loaʻa ʻana o ka hoʻolauleʻa āu i manaʻo ai, a ʻike ʻoe ua hāpai ʻia ʻo ia no ka mea ua hiamoe ʻo ia me ka luna, kūlike kou lili, inā ʻaʻole ia he mea hoʻowahāwahā. Ma hope o nā mea āpau, aia ma ka hapa iki ma muli o kāna hāmeʻa i loaʻa iā ia ka manaʻo a ʻaʻole iā ʻoe.

Me he lili paha ka lili e pili ana i ka inaina a me ka hāʻawi ʻia o ke kuleana. Eia nō naʻe, ʻoi aku ka nui o ka inaina a me ke ʻano o ke kuleana i ka noʻonoʻo ʻana ke kū i ka lili ma mua o ka lili.

Manaʻo pinepine mākou i ka lili me ka pili paʻa i ke aloha aloha. Hiki paha i kēia kuhi ke hoʻohuli i kā mākou hana e noʻonoʻo ai i kā mākou mea nui e like me "kā mākou waiwai." ʻAʻole wale ka lili i nā pilina aloha, akā naʻe. Hoʻokumu ʻia kekahi ʻano o ka hoʻokūkū hoahānau ma ka hoʻoweliweli i ʻike ʻia no ka lilo ʻana o ke aloha o ka makua i kekahi kaikaina. Pēlā nō, hoʻokūkū paha kekahi mau hoaaloha ʻelua no ka nānā a me ka manawa o ke kolu o ka hoa ma ke kumu o ka hoʻoweliweli ʻike ʻia o ka lilo ʻana o ka pili loa a lāua me ka hoa ʻekolu.

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