No ke aha ʻaʻole aʻo ka ʻenemi i ka ʻenemi o ka hoihoi

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• ʻIke ka hapa nui o mākou i kahi hana maʻamau o kēlā me kēia lā e like me ke antithetical i ka noho ʻana i ke ola o ka hoihoi a me ka hoihoi.
• ʻO ia manaʻoʻiʻo he dichotomy wahaheʻe e hoʻopilikia loa i kā mākou ʻapo ʻana i ke aʻo ma ke ʻano he kī i kahi ola hoihoi.
• Inā makemake mākou iā ia a ʻaʻole paha, i mea e kūleʻa ai i kekahi mea, pono mākou e hana i kahi ʻano repetitive a pinepine hōʻoluʻolu hoʻi.
• Hiki iā mākou ke hana i kekahi mau hana e hoʻolilo i ke aʻo i mea pono i ke kūkulu ʻana i ke ola hoihoi a me ke ola a mākou e manaʻo nei.

ʻO kekahi o nā kaha puanaʻī nui loa aʻu i lohe ai ma ke kiʻi ʻoniʻoni ʻo "Lean on Me" i ka makahiki 1989. I loko o kahi haʻiʻōlelo i hoʻolālā ʻia e hoʻonāukiuki i nā kumu e hoʻomaʻamaʻa maikaʻi aʻe i nā haumāna, ua walaʻau ʻo ia, "ʻAʻole ka ʻenemi ka ʻenemi o ka hoihoi." Ua kani ikaika loa ia no ka mea ua ʻike wau he ʻoiaʻiʻo ia-a eia naʻe ka ʻaoʻao ʻē aʻe o koʻu noho ʻana a hiki i kēlā manawa o koʻu ola.

No ka hapanui o mākou, nā huaʻōlelo "papa kuhikuhi" a i ʻole "kūkulu" kūlohelohe i ka manaʻo o ka loaʻa ʻana o kahi "hana maʻamau." Hana pinepine mākou i nā mea like me ka liʻuliʻu ʻole. E ala mākou i kēlā me kēia lā i ka manawa like, ʻai i ka manawa like, hana i nā hola like, hoʻoikaika kino i ka manawa like, a hoʻomaha iki paha i kēlā me kēia lā. Ua hoʻohiki ʻia mākou inā hiki iā mākou ke ʻapo i nā hana maʻamau, e loaʻa iā mākou kahi ola paʻa, olakino, a me ka hana. Hōʻike nā mea āpau e pili ana i kēlā ʻano i ke akahai, e pili ana i ka luhi. ʻAe mākou i ka ukali ʻana i kahi papa hana ma kahi lohi, kūmau, a kūlike hoʻi i mea e alakaʻi ai i kahi ola ʻoluʻolu a "makua".

Akā manaʻo mākou aia he kālepa kalepa implicit. Koi ʻia mākou e haʻalele i ko mākou kuko. Pono mākou e "ulu" a makemake hou ʻole i nā hanana pīhoihoi a serendipitous i ko mākou ola. ʻAʻole mākou e moeʻuhane hou ma ke ʻano he hōkū pōhaku, mea haʻuki pro, a i mea hana keaka kūleʻa. Ua hala nā lā o ka pāʻina kaumaha, pīhoihoi akā kūpikipiki nā manaʻo ʻoihana, a me ka huakaʻi huakaʻi ʻole. ʻO kā mākou mau manaʻolana o ke ola ʻana i nā ola hihiu e nānā ʻia ma ka puka.

ʻAe, ʻae ʻia mākou e inu i kekahi mau mea inu ma aneʻi a ma laila, malia paha he hopena pule kolepa leʻaleʻa, a i ʻole hele huakaʻi maikaʻi me kā mākou wahine a me ka ʻohana. Akā ma ke ʻano holoʻokoʻa, pono mākou e lilo i poʻe makua a ʻike i ka leʻaleʻa ma hope o mākou. Pono mākou i ke aʻo, ka hana maʻamau, a me ke ʻano i kēia manawa.ʻO ka ʻoiaʻiʻo, ʻo kēlā me kēia instinc e hele i waho o ka pahu a alualu i kā mākou mau kuko makemake ʻia ua hoʻokuʻu ʻia ma ke ʻano he ʻōpio ʻōpio a makua ʻole - kahi hoʻoweliweli kūpilikiʻi i ke aʻo a me ke ʻano e pono ai mākou e olakino a hauʻoli.

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ʻĀ, hoʻokahi kumu ʻoiaʻiʻo he ʻāpana hapa ia. Inā makemake mākou iā ia a ʻaʻole paha, i mea e kūleʻa ai i kekahi mea, pono mākou e hana i kahi ʻano repetitive a pinepine hōʻoluʻolu hoʻi. Makemake e loaʻa kahi hana uku mau? E aho mākou ma ka hana i kēlā me kēia lā. Makemake i kahi ola olakino? Pono mākou e hiamoe mau, ʻai olakino, hoʻoikaika kino, a noho mamao aku i nā mea ʻino i kēlā me kēia lā. Ke lana nei ka manaʻo i kahi pilina olakino a me ka ʻohana? E hoʻomaopopo wale i kāu mea ʻē aʻe koʻikoʻi ʻaʻole ʻoe e koi ʻia e hoʻopuni iā ​​lākou ma kahi maʻamau a ʻike ʻoe i ka holo ʻana o kēlā. Inā makemake mākou i ka kūleʻa, pono mākou i ka hana maʻamau a me ke aʻo.

ʻO kekahi kumu mākou e manaʻo ai ʻo ka hoʻopaʻi ka ʻenemi o ka hoihoi ka mea i hōʻike mua ʻia i kā mākou hoʻolauna i ke ʻano o ka maʻamau a me nā papa kuhikuhi. ʻAʻole i nīnau ʻia iā mākou ka mea a mākou e makemake ai - haʻi ʻia mākou i ka mea e hana ai. ʻAʻohe kūʻai-i a ʻaʻohe koho. Pono mākou e hele i ke kula i kēlā me kēia lā pule. Ua pono mākou e hiamoe i ka wā hiamoe a ala ala i kakahiaka. Pono mākou e ʻai i kā mākou meaʻai i nā manawa kikoʻī.

Eia hou, inā ʻaʻole mākou i hana i kēia mau mea, aia nā hopena maikaʻi ʻole. E hoʻopaʻa ʻia a hoʻokuʻu ʻia paha mākou mai ke kula, hoʻokumu ʻia a ʻae ʻole ʻia e hana i kekahi o nā mea a mākou i aloha ai. A i ʻole i kekahi mau hihia, ua kuʻi ʻia a hoʻomāinoino ʻia kekahi o mākou. A inā ʻo ia ke kumu o ka leʻaleʻa o mākou-ʻo ia nō. E hoʻolohe mua, e nīnau i nā nīnau ma hope — inā ʻoi loa — ʻo ia ke ala palekana loa e hele a ulu a ulu i kahi ola makua.

Akā ʻo ka pilikia o kēia kumumanaʻo ua hana mākou i dichotomy wahaheʻe. ʻAʻole wale ka hoʻopaʻi ʻana ʻaʻole ka ʻenemi o ka hoihoi, akā ʻo ia wale nō paha ke ala e hoʻomohala pono ai a hānai ai i ka hoihoi i ko mākou ola. ʻO ka hoʻopaʻi pololei ia e like me ka mea i hōʻike ʻia i ka hana maʻamau, ka hoʻolālā ʻana, a me ka hoʻolālā ʻana e hiki ai iā mākou ke hele no ka lanakila nui.

ʻOiaʻiʻo, hiki iā mākou ke kiʻi i ke kahua i kekahi mau manawa inā loaʻa kā mākou talena maka. Akā ʻaʻole loa mākou e lilo i hōkū pōhaku, nā ʻōlapa hana, a i ʻole nā ​​mea hana keaka kaulana ʻole me ka hoʻomanawanui ʻole i nā makahiki o ka hoʻomaʻamaʻa ʻana. A inā ʻo kā mākou kumu e hoʻopiha i kā mākou hana, pono mākou e ʻae he mau hola ka lōʻihi o ka wili mālie a paʻa.

Ke noʻonoʻo nui nei wau e pili ana i kēia pilikia mai ke kamaʻilio pū ʻana me Marc Labelle o ka hui pōhaku paʻa paʻa ma Los Angeles ʻo Dirty Honey no ʻO ka Podcast Humanism Hardcore . Ke noʻonoʻo mākou i nā pā pōhaku paʻakikī, makemake mākou e noʻonoʻo i kēlā ʻano stereotype o ka paakiki paʻakikī, stick-it-to-the-man hoʻolilo iā lākou i mau hōkū. Akā ʻo Labelle — ka mea i noho ma waho o kāna kaʻa no kahi makahiki hoʻokahi, a laila ma nā lanai o nā poʻe ʻē aʻe - hoʻokomo koke i kahi papa hana hoʻopaʻapaʻa e pili ana i ka hoʻoikaika kino, ka hana mau ʻana i kāna pāʻina, a me ke pāʻani ʻana i nā hōʻike i mea e kō ai ka moemoeā hōkū pōhaku. .

No laila pehea mākou e hoʻohana ai i ka hoʻopaʻi e hānai ma mua o ka hōʻoki ʻana i ko mākou hoihoi?

ʻO ka mea mua, pono mākou e hōʻole loa i ka dichotomy wahaheʻe ʻo ka hoʻopaʻi ka ʻenemi o ka hoihoi. Ma kahi o, pono mākou e ʻapo i ka manaʻo o kēlā me kēia mea a mākou e makemake ai e hana e hoʻā ʻia i ko mākou makemake nui a me ka hoihoi i ka aʻo, ka hana maʻamau, a me ka hoʻonohonoho ʻana. I ka hana ʻana pēlā, hōʻole loa mākou i ka manaʻo o ke "makua" a me ke "oʻo" ke ola kahi e pono ai mākou e hoʻokuʻu i ka hoihoi a me ke kuko. ʻO ia kēlā leka wahaheʻe e hoʻopilikia loa i kā mākou ʻapo ʻana i ke aʻo ma ke ʻano he kī i kahi ola hoihoi.

ʻO ka lua, pono mākou e noʻonoʻo i ke kumu o ke ola. He aha ka mea e pīhoihoi ai iā mākou? He aha ka mea e hoʻopiha ai iā mākou i ke kuko? He aha ka mea e pili ai iā mākou e pili ana i nā poʻe ʻē aʻe? Ma ka hoʻokumu ʻana i kā mākou ʻike i ke ola a mākou e makemake ai, hōʻole loa mākou i ka manaʻo o kekahi ka mea e kaohi. No laila, hiki ke hoʻomaopopo ʻia ke aʻo ʻana i loko o ka pōʻaiapili o kā mākou ʻike i ko mākou ola — ʻaʻole na haʻi. No laila, iā mākou ia ma ke ʻāpana o kahi meaola a pau - kahi kaʻa no ko mākou hoihoi.

A laila, e hana ana i hope, hiki iā mākou ke nīnau iā mākou iho, "He aha kā mākou e pono ai e hana e hoʻokō ai i kā mākou kumu?" He aha ka mea e kōkua iā mākou i kēlā me kēia lā, pule, mahina, makahiki makahiki e kūkulu i kahi ola o ka hoihoi, kuko, a me ka pilina? Hiki iā mākou ke hoʻonohonoho i kahi papa kuhikuhi me nā ʻanuʻu hoʻonui e alakaʻi iā mākou i ka hopena. A i ko mākou hele ʻana i loko o kā mākou mau lā, hiki iā mākou ke nānā pinepine i loko e ʻike pono ai ʻo kā mākou papa hana ka mea ʻoi loa no ke kūkulu ʻana i kahi ola hoihoi, hoihoi, a me ka manaʻo kumu. He hana hoʻomau kēia o ka tinkering, ʻoiai ka mea e loli ai ka hoihoi a me nā mea e hiki ai iā mākou ke hana e hoʻokō i kā mākou mau pahuhopu e loli paha.

ʻO ka mea hope loa, pono mākou e ʻike i ka wā e hele ai mākou i loko o kā mākou ola hoʻopaʻi, ʻaʻole mākou e ʻike i ka hoihoi. Manaʻo pinepine mākou he hana hou a luhi hoʻi ka mea a mākou e hana nei. A ʻo ia nō. ʻO ka hoʻoulu ʻana i ka hoihoi ka hope loa. Akā ka wili e hoʻopau ai i nā mea. Pono mākou e hoʻomanaʻo iā mākou iho i kahi manawa maʻamau ʻo kēia mau hana maʻamau a paʻakikī hoʻi nā mea e hoʻokokoke iā mākou i kā mākou mau pahuhopu. A inā mākou e hāhai i kā mākou papa hana a ʻapo i ka ʻoiaʻiʻo ʻo ka hoʻopaʻi ʻaʻole ka ʻenemi o ka hoihoi, hiki iā mākou ke loaʻa ke ola hoihoi a me ka manaʻo a mākou i manaʻo ai.