Mālama pono iā ʻoe iho i ka wā o COVID: Ke hana nei ma o ka nalowale

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• Nā Heluhelu Pono Pono
• Pākuʻi Make: Pehea e hoʻōla ai ke make koke kahi mea aloha

Ua lawe mai ʻo COVID-19 iā mākou i ka pohō, a ma ka manawa like, hōʻike i ko mākou hōʻoluʻolu ʻole me ke kaumaha.

Ma waena o ka nūhou e nānā ana, holoi lima ʻana, a me ka neʻe ʻana o ko mākou ola i nā home a me nā pale, he hapa nui o mākou i ʻike ʻole i kekahi. A ʻo kahi hopena, ke hele nei mākou a puni me ke kaumaha i hoʻoholo ʻole ʻia a makaʻu mākou (a makaʻu paha).

I mea e hala ai i nā mahina i mua, he mea nui e hōʻoia i kou mau manaʻo a hana iā lākou ma o. ʻO ka mea pili i ka noʻonoʻo ʻole i ke kaohi, kaumaha e pili ana i nā ola nalowale a me nā manawa kūpono, a me ke kanikau maoli. Nānā ʻole i ka manaʻo o ka "nui" a "liʻiliʻi" paha o kāu mau lilo pilikino, aia lākou nā mea āpau mea nui e hana ʻia ma.

He ʻano hipa ke kanaka e pili ana i ke kū ʻana i loko o ko mākou naʻau ikaika a ʻo ke kaumaha kekahi o nā mea ikaika loa. Ma ke Komohana, kahi e mālama nui ʻia ai ka huahana a me ka mana kūʻokoʻa, ke kānalua nei mākou i ka lawe ʻana i kahi manawa e noʻonoʻo ai, kahi wale nō e hana i loko o kā mākou naʻau.

No laila, i ko mākou heihei e hoʻomaʻamaʻa i kā mākou mea hou, he nui ka poʻe o mākou e pane nei i waho o ko mākou manaʻo nui ʻole a hōʻole i ke kūmākena ʻana i nā puka. Ma muli paha o kā mākou ʻike ʻole, nā manaʻo hewa e pili ana i kā mākou pono ponoʻī i mua o ka maʻi, a i ʻole ka ʻike ʻole i ka inoa a me ka hana ʻana ma o ko mākou mau manaʻo, e pale kēia iā mākou mai ka hoʻokele maikaʻi ʻana i nā mahina e hiki mai ana.

Pono e hōʻoia e hoʻoholo i ke kaumaha. E neʻe i kēlā ʻaoʻao o ka hāʻule o ka naʻau me ka nalowale, pono mākou i ka ʻoiaʻiʻo o ka mea a mākou e alo nei a hana i ka mea e hiki ai iā mākou ke noʻonoʻo i ke ala o ke kaumaha, ka huhū, a me nā ʻano manaʻo paʻakikī ʻē aʻe e hōʻike iā lākou iho.

He hana paʻakikī kēia, a hiki i kekahi aʻo ke hele ma kahi lōʻihi i ke kōkua ʻana iā mākou e hoʻokō i kēia hana. ʻO ka hana mua ka inoa ʻana a me ka hoʻomaopopo ʻana i ko mākou kaumaha a me nā pohō i hiki iā mākou ke kono iā lākou a hana iā lākou ma o.

ʻO ke ala e loaʻa ai nā pohō i ka hopena o ka ʻike a me ka hana ʻana iā lākou. ʻO nā poho i hoʻopili pū ʻia me ka trauma ua hoʻopili hohonu ʻia i ka lolo a koi pinepine i ke kōkua mākaukau e hana. ʻO nā pohō hikiwawe, a me nā mea ma waho o kā mākou kaohi, he paʻakikī paʻakikī e hoʻokele.

ʻAʻole kēia e ʻōlelo i nā nalo a mākou e koho ai a i ʻole hiki ke ʻike i ka hiki ʻana mai he maʻalahi ke lawelawe. ʻOkoʻa wale lākou. I ka hana ʻana i loko o ke kaumaha, he mea kōkua ia e ʻike a empati pū me ka manawa a mākou i hana ai, a i ʻole ʻaʻole hoʻi, e mākaukau.

ʻO nā ʻano o ke eo a mākou e ʻike nei he ʻokoʻa a hoʻohālikelike i ko mākou kanikau ma nā ʻano paʻakikī. Ke hoʻonāukiuki kahi hanana i kekahi mau ʻano i ka nalowale ʻana i ka manawa hoʻokahi, pili pū kēia mau mea iā mākou iho i loko o kā mākou psyches, e paʻakikī ana e hana pū me nā mea ʻino inā ʻaʻole mākou. I ka hoʻāʻo ʻana e hana i loko o kā mākou kaumaha, hiki ke kōkua i ke kapa ʻana i nā ʻano o ke eo a mākou e ʻike nei.

Eia kekahi mau waeʻano pohihihi o ka nalo.

Ka Lilo Mea: ʻO ka lilo ʻana o nā mea kū i ke ʻano o ke kaumaha. Ke lilo ka home i ka foreclosure a i ʻole ke ahi, hopena pinepine ka manaʻo o ka palekana. Hāpai ʻia nā manaʻo like me ka nalo e ka ʻaihue a i ʻole ka ulia o kekahi mau mea a mākou i pili ai.

ʻO ka nalo ʻana o ke kālā a me ke kūpaʻa kālā e pili pū hoʻi ma aneʻi. Pili pinepine kēia mau lilo a hoʻoliʻiliʻi pinepine ʻia e nā poʻe ʻē aʻe. E hoʻomanaʻo i ke ʻano o ka nalo ʻana i kahi mea pāʻani punahele ma ke ʻano kamaliʻi a ʻike ʻoe i kaʻu e ʻōlelo nei.

I ka manawa o COVID-19, lilo ka mea i mea:

• Loaʻa o ka loaʻa kālā a me ka palekana kālā
• ʻO ka hoʻoweliweli o ka lilo ʻana o kou home (no ka poʻe e nalowale ana nā hana)
• Lilo i nā ʻano hana a i ʻole nā ​​wahi aʻo e hana ai i loko
• Ka nalowale o ka hiki ke kūʻai maʻalahi i nā mea i makemake ʻia
• Loaʻa ka mana kūʻokoʻa i kā mākou mau wahi pahuhopu (inā mākou e hana mai ka home a i kēia manawa i kekahi poʻe i kā mākou wahi)

Loss pilina: ʻO kēia mau pohō ke ʻano a mākou e ʻike ai ma ke kuʻuna me ke kaumaha. Kūpono ka make o ka poʻe a mākou e aloha ai, e like me nā nalo e pili ana i ka hoʻokaʻawale ʻana a me / a i ʻole ka hemo ʻana i ka pilina aloha a me nā aloha aloha.

I ka manawa o COVID-19, ke kumu o ka nalo pili.

• ʻO ka mamao o ka naʻau ma waena o nā pilina ma muli o ka hoʻonui ʻia o ka hoʻokaʻawale kino
• Ka makaʻu i ka make (iā ʻoe iho a i ʻole nā ​​mea ʻē aʻe)
• ʻO ka make maoli o nā mea aloha e pili ana i ka maʻi

Nā Heluhelu Pono Pono

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