Hōʻike nā mākua kahiko i ka mea e hoʻohua ai i ka wahine nui

Ke ʻelemakule nei ka heluna kānaka o ʻAmelika. Loaʻa nā mākua ʻelemakule i ka nui o nā mea aloha. I ka wā o ko lākou mau makahiki he kanaono, kanahiku, a ma ʻō aku hoʻi he mau hoa a hiki i ke kino ke aloha, ʻo ka hapanui he mau hoa pilikino maʻamau. Hōʻike kahi noiʻi nui i hoʻohālikelike ʻia me nā ʻelemakule i hui pū ʻole me ka aloha aloha hoa, nā mea e mālama i nā ola moekolohe e hauʻoli i ka leʻaleʻa o ka pilina, ke olakino olakino a me ka noʻonoʻo, ka nānā aku i ka maikaʻi, ke kiʻekiʻe o ke ola, a me ka lōʻihi.

Akā i ka wā makua, hoʻololi ka wahine. ʻO ka hapanui o nā mākua e ʻike i ka wikiwiki o ka moekolohe a me ka ikehu, ʻo ka mea hoʻi me nā kūlana olakino hoʻomau (ʻeha, ʻeha, diabetes, maʻi puʻuwai, a pēlā aku.). Hoʻomohala mau nā kāne ʻelemakule i kekahi pae o ka hana erectile. ʻO ka hapanui o nā wahine e hakakā me ka maloʻo liʻiliʻi a me ka lahilahi o ke kino (atrophy) i hiki ke hōʻoluʻolu ʻole i ka moekolohe me ka lubricant. A i ka piʻi ʻana o nā ihoiho i ka pōpō, lilo i mea paʻakikī no nā mākua ʻelemakule e hana a hiki i ka orgasm.

ʻO ka hōʻole ʻoi aku ka nui ma mua o ka ʻoluʻolu

Akā ʻoiai e hāʻule ana ke alapine pinepine i ke ola ma hope, ua emi iho ka ʻoluʻolu. I ka ʻoiaʻiʻo, ʻōlelo kekahi mau ʻelemakule ua māʻona lākou i kā lākou aloha aloha ma mua o ka wā ma mua. Pehea e mālama ai nā mākua i nā wahine ʻoluʻolu? Ua kono nā kānaka noiʻi ma ke Kulanui ʻo Sonoma State ma Kaleponi i nā mākua i hui pū ʻia me 50 no ka hoʻopau ʻana i kahi ana i kau ʻia no 10 mau lā ma ka pūnaewele o NBC News. Ma mua o 9,000 poʻe i komo.

I kā lākou kālailai, ua hoʻokaʻawale nā ​​mea noiʻi i nā pane i ʻehā mau hui:

• ʻO ke alapine haʻahaʻa, hoʻoliʻiliʻi haʻahaʻa (haʻahaʻa-haʻahaʻa, 3,985 mau mea i pane ʻia).
• ʻO ke alapine haʻahaʻa, ʻoluʻolu kiʻekiʻe (haʻahaʻa-kiʻekiʻe, 1,065).
• ʻO ke alapine kiʻekiʻe, ka hoʻoliʻiliʻi haʻahaʻa (kiʻekiʻe-haʻahaʻa, 951).
• ʻO ke alapine kiʻekiʻe, kaʻoluʻolu kiʻekiʻe (kiʻekiʻe-kiʻekiʻe, 3,163,).

Ua nānā nā mea noiʻi i nā hui ʻelua: haʻahaʻa haʻahaʻa a kiʻekiʻe, a kānana i nā mea nona ke kūlana haʻahaʻa i loaʻa i nā pilikia olakino i hoʻopilikia ʻia me ke aloha. ʻO ka pūʻulu haʻahaʻa haʻahaʻa ka hapanui o nā kāne - 48 pākēneka o nā kāne i pane i ka ana, a me 38 pākēneka o nā wahine. ʻO ka hui kiʻekiʻe kiʻekiʻe ka wahine - 38 pākēneka o nā wahine, a 33 pākēneka o nā kāne.

Nā mea moekolohe i hoʻemi i ka pinepine a me ka hauʻoli

Ua pili ikaika ka haʻahaʻa a me ka hoʻoliʻiliʻi haʻahaʻa me:

1. ʻOkoʻa ʻokoʻa makemake. Ke makemake nui kekahi i ka moekolohe ma mua o ka mea ʻē aʻe, kaumaha ka aloha.
2. Luuluu. Ma hope o kekahi manawa, kū ka mea like i nā manawa āpau i ka leʻaleʻa.
3. Hāmau. ʻO nā mea aloha ʻaʻole kūkākūkā i kā lākou makemake e loli nei a i ʻole nā ​​mea e hōʻoki ana i ka nānā ʻana e pili ana i kēia mau pilikia ma hope o ka hala ʻana o kekahi mau makahiki.
4. Ke hoʻokuʻu nei i nā kumuwaiwai kōkua pilikino. Ke hōʻike nei kekahi wahine i nā mea e hāʻawi ana i nā manaʻo moekolohe a haʻalele ka mea ʻē iā ia, huhū ka mea hōʻike a manaʻo kekahi i ka pale ʻana. Inā hana pinepine ka mea like, hoʻomohala nā hoa ʻelua.
5. ʻAʻohe hoʻonohonoho ʻano. ʻAʻohe ihoiho, mele, ʻakaʻaka, a me nā aloha i hāwanawana ʻia ma mua a i ka wā o ka moekolohe.
6. Ke holo nei i loko o ka moekolohe. Liʻiliʻi a ʻaʻohe paha honi, cuddling, lomilomi kino holoʻokoʻa, pai lima lima genital, wahine waha, a me nā mea pāʻani.
7. Nā ʻokoʻa lōʻihi. Ua kūlike ʻole ka manaʻo o nā kāne haʻahaʻa e pili ana i ka lōʻihi o ka moekolohe ʻana, me ka koi ʻana o kekahi i ka wikiwiki e hana pinepine i nā huhū i kekahi.
8. Ka mamao o ka naʻau a me nā haunaele pili mau. Pepehi kēia mau mea i ka makemake a hoʻopōʻino i ka hana.
9. Moʻolelo kanikau. Ua mālama nā lunakahiko haʻahaʻa i nā moʻolelo lōʻihi o ka hōʻoluʻolu ʻole o kekahi i kekahi.
10. Mythology. Ke ʻōlelo kekahi hoa, "ʻUaʻelemakule wau / ʻelemakule mākou no ka moekolohe," manaʻo ka mea ʻē ʻē.

ʻO nā mea moekolohe i hoʻonui i ka pinepine a me ka hauʻoli

Ua pili ikaika ka alapine kiʻekiʻe a me ka leʻaleʻa kiʻekiʻe me:

1. Hoʻohui pū. Ua hiki i nā kāne kiʻekiʻe ke kūkākūkā me nā alapine wahine i hiki ke noho pū me ka ʻoluʻolu a me ka ʻoluʻolu ʻole.
2. Mea Hou. ʻO nā mea hou a me nā mea ʻokoʻa e hoʻoulu ai i ka hoʻokuʻu o ka dopamine, ka neurotransmitter o ka wela moekolohe. Ua hana aloha nā kāne kiʻekiʻe i ke aloha i nā ala hou i nā wahi hou, a i nā manawa like ʻole. Ua wehe lākou i nā recourses kōkua pilikino, a mahalo aku kekahi i kekahi no ka hōʻike ʻana iā lākou.
3. Kūkākūkā. He aha ka pilina maoli? Hōʻikeʻike pilikino me ka hoʻohana ʻana i nā huaʻōlelo. Hāmau ka noho mālie i ka pili a pili i nā pilina naʻau. Ua makemake nui nā kāne kiʻekiʻe e kūkākūkā i kā lākou makemake moekolohe, pono, a me nā loli. Ua mahalo pū lākou i kā lākou aloha aloha, a ua noi lākou i ka manaʻo pane. Ua kāhea a leka ʻia paha ka hapa nui ma mua o nā lā moekolohe e ʻōlelo ana ke nānā nei lākou i mua i ke aloha.
4. Hoonohonoho-ʻeleu ʻeleu. Nui nā kāne kiʻekiʻe ma luna o nā ihoiho, kumu, mele, ʻakaʻaka, a ʻōlelo, "Aloha wau iā ʻoe."
5. Nui ke aloha aloha. ʻO ka huaʻōlelo maʻamau ʻo "foreplay," akā hōʻike ia i nā hana ma mua o ka moekolohe. Nui a mau ka poʻe aloha ʻelemakule i ka paʻakikī a hiki ʻole ʻole paha ma waena o nā pilikia o ke kūkulu ʻana o nā kāne, a me ka maloʻo ʻana o ka wahine a me ke atrophy. ʻO nā mea aloha kiʻekiʻe kiʻekiʻe e hoʻoliʻiliʻi a hāʻawi paha me ka moekolohe a me ka nānā ʻana i ka honi ʻana, ka hoʻopili ʻana, ka lomilomi holoʻokoʻa o ke kino, nā hana lima, ka manamana lima, ka waha waha, nā mea pāʻani, a me nā pāʻani anal paha a me nā kink (nā maka makapō, paʻi).
6. Whoopee hoʻolōʻihi ʻia. Me ka hoʻonui ʻana o ka makahiki, ʻoi aku ka lōʻihi o ka hoʻomehana ʻana i ka pāʻani genital. Ua hauʻoli nā kāne kiʻekiʻe kiʻekiʻe i nā aloha non-genital ma mua o ka hōʻea ʻana ma waena o nā wāwae o kekahi.
7. Hoʻopukapuka manaʻo. Hana mau nā kāne kiʻekiʻe kiʻekiʻe i kā lākou mau pilina a hoʻokipa i nā kūkā.
8. Mōʻaukala hauʻoli. ʻO nā kāne i kiʻekiʻe kiʻekiʻe i ka wā ʻōpio e mālama mau iā ia i ko lākou wā ʻelemakule.
9. Ka hoʻohiki e noho moekolohe. I nā kāne kiʻekiʻe, ua manaʻoʻiʻo nā kāne ʻelua he mea nui ka wahine i ka pilina, a ʻaʻole hoʻi i haʻalele unilaterally mai ka hana aloha ʻana ma muli o ka makahiki a me nā kumu ʻē aʻe.

ʻAʻole kū hoʻokahi i ka ʻelemakule

ʻOiai ke nānā nei kēia aʻo ʻana i nā kāne ma mua o 50, nā mea e kōkua i ka hōʻoluʻolu moekolohe a i ʻole nele iā lākou kūʻokoʻa i ka makahiki. ʻO nā kumu o ke alapine haʻahaʻa a me ke kiʻekiʻe a me ka hōʻoluʻolu e pili i nā mea aloha o nā makahiki āpau.

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