ʻO nā maʻi Defiant Oppositional (ʻano ʻole) i nā keiki: Nā kumu a me nā ʻōuli

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• He aha nā hana e makaʻala ai iā mākou e ʻeha ai kā mākou keiki mai TOD?
• Nā kumu o ka maʻi kūʻē kūʻē
• Nā ʻōuli
• ʻImi a me kahi kuhi
• Therapy a me ka lapaʻau
• ʻO nā mea i manaʻo ʻia a me nā pilikia kūpono
• Kāohi i ka maʻi kūʻē kūʻē
• ʻO kekahi mau ʻatikala i hiki ke kōkua iā ʻoe e aʻo pololei i kāu keiki

He aha nā hana e makaʻala ai iā mākou e ʻeha ai kā mākou keiki mai TOD?

T rastorno Kūʻē Kūʻē (ODD) a kumu hoʻohālikelike o ka hoʻokuli, kūʻē a me ka lawena kūʻē i nā kiʻi mana i kekahi mau keiki e noho nei.

I kekahi manawa hoʻohana ʻia nā ʻōlelo e like me "keiki ʻemepela" a i ʻole "keiki emperor syndrome" e kuhikuhi ai i kēia ʻano lawena i ka wā kamaliʻi.

Nā kumu o ka maʻi kūʻē kūʻē

He maʻi ia i ʻoi aku ka kiʻekiʻe o nā keiki kāne ma mua o nā kaikamahine. Ua hōʻike ʻia kekahi mau noiʻi pili ka maʻi kūʻē kūʻē i 20% o nā keiki ma waena o nā makahiki o 5 a me 10. Eia nō naʻe, ʻae nā psychologists aʻo a me nā pedagogues hiki ke hoʻonui ʻia kēia kiʻi ma muli o nā ʻano ʻokoʻa ke loiloi i kēia ʻano hana a hoʻohālikelike ʻia me nā hana a ke keiki i manaʻo ʻia he maʻamau.

ʻO ka maʻi ʻōpala Oppositional ka hoʻomaka ʻana ma kahi o 8 mau makahiki o ka makahiki, akā kaukaʻi ʻia i ka hihia, hiki iā ia ke hoʻomaka i ka makahiki 4-5. Hoʻomaopopo pinepine ʻia ia he hana pono ʻole i hoʻokumu ʻia e ka hui ʻana o nā meaola, psychological a me nā wahi.

Nā ʻōuli

E ʻike inā loaʻa i kahi keiki kahi maʻi kūʻē kūʻē pono e hana hou i kā lākou hana no 6 mau mahina, kūpono i loko o ka hapalua o nā ʻōuli i hōʻike ʻia ma luna, a hana hewa loa i nā palena o ka lawena hana kamaliʻi maʻamau.

Pono e hoʻokaʻawale ʻokoʻa ke ʻano o nā lawena mai nā keiki ʻē aʻe o nā makahiki like a me ka pae like o ka hoʻomohala ʻike. Pono ka hopena e pili i nā pilikia koʻikoʻi i ke kaona kula a i ʻole i kā lākou mau pilina pili kanaka.

ʻImi a me kahi kuhi

ʻO nā keiki i loaʻa nā ʻōuli e kūpono i ka ODD pono e loiloi ʻia e ka psychiatrist a psychologist paha.

Ke kamaʻilio nei mākou e pili ana i nā keiki a ʻōpio paha, aia kekahi mau psychopathologies i hiki ke hāpai i nā ʻōuli a me nā ʻano e like loa me nā maʻi kūʻē kūʻē, a no laila pono e noʻonoʻo ʻia:

Therapy a me ka lapaʻau

ʻO ke kanaka e hiki ke loiloi a me ka pakuhi i kahi lāʻau kūpono no kēia ʻano o nā hihia he loea no ke ola kino, he loea i ka hoʻomaʻamaʻa pākahi a me nā maʻi ulu a me nā ʻohana. No kā lākou ʻāpana, pono i nā mākua e aʻo i ke kaʻina o nā alakaʻi a me nā ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo e hoʻokele a hoʻomaikaʻi ai i kā lākou keiki ʻano.

Aia kekahi mau lāʻau i hiki ke lawelawe ʻia i nā hihia kahi DOT kahi hopena o kekahi psychopathology i lalo, e like me ke kaumaha a i ʻole psychosis kamaliʻi. I kekahi hihia, ʻo ka lāʻau lapaʻau lāʻau ke koho hope loa, ʻoiai ke hōʻike nei ka psychological a me ka ʻohana therapy i nā pae maikaʻi o ka maikaʻi e hoʻoponopono ai i kēia maʻi.

ʻO nā mea i manaʻo ʻia a me nā pilikia kūpono

Hiki i ka Psychological therapy ke hopena maikaʻi i ka hapanui o nā hihia, akā aia kekahi mau hihia o nā keiki pilikia loa ka mea i hoʻohui ʻia ka hiʻohiʻona hana. ʻO nā keiki me ka maʻi maʻi kūʻē hiki ke ulu a lilo i ʻōpio a me ke kūlana makua me ka maʻi maʻi.

I kekahi mau hihia, hiki i ke keiki me ka ODD ke hoʻomohala i ka maʻi pilikino antisocial ma ke ʻano makua.

I mea e mālama ai i kēia maʻi i ka wā e hiki ai ke ʻoluʻolu i ka wānana, e kūkākūkā me kāu kauka, psychologist a i ʻole psychiatrist inā he nīnau kāu e pili ana inā paha e lawe ana kāu keiki i nā ʻano o ke ʻano maʻamau o TOD.

Kāohi i ka maʻi kūʻē kūʻē

Ma ke ʻano he mākua, pono mākou e kūlike i ka hoʻonohonoho ʻana i nā lula a me nā palena no kā mākou poʻe keiki ma ka nohona home. Eia hou, pono e kau i nā hoʻopaʻi like i ke kolohe a ke keiki; ʻAʻole loa mākou e hana ʻino a kūʻē paha me nā uku a hoʻopaʻi paha.

E aʻo nui nā keiki e ka hoʻohālike. ʻO kēia ka manaʻo o nā mākua, ma ke ʻano he kuhikuhi mua no nā keiki, lawelawe i ke aniani no ka hoʻomohala ʻana i kekahi mau ʻano hana. No laila, e akahele kākou. A ʻoiaʻiʻo, pono ʻoe e hōʻalo i ka hōʻino a me ka hōʻole ʻana i ka naʻau no ka mea he mea ia e hoʻomaka ai i kēia ʻano maʻi.

ʻO kekahi mau ʻatikala i hiki ke kōkua iā ʻoe e aʻo pololei i kāu keiki

Inā he ʻelima mau minuke hou aʻe o ka heluhelu ʻana, aʻoaʻo mākou iā ʻoe e nānā i kēia mau pou e hāʻawi iā ʻoe i kekahi mau kī e pale aku ai iā ODD a e aʻo ai kāu keiki i nā ʻano hana adaptive.